Well, that's unfortunate (about your father, I mean). Well, that's cool that you work; many of do as well. It's part of being a grown up. Yes, I do know. I haven't saw that at all, on any of your posts. When people respond to your messages, they're telling you what they do, what they think might be a better option and providing you with free advice. Please note, when posting on a public forum; you will get all sorts of answers. Some may be helpful, others less so, some positive and some negative. That's the nature of the beast. Wow, you sure went back to smoking pretty quick and easily. I haven't shunned anyone at all, and I don't certainly think that I'm "advanced". You're gonna need thicker skin, kid; if you're wanting to hang out on internet forums. I've yet to see anyone here be "stuck up cunts". People here are pretty helpful and considerate, at least that's what I've seen in my time here. Though, I can see why your experience may be different. PS-I've smoked for 16 years, out of my 26 years of life, 2 packs ($32-$35) a day for 12 years. I quit two months ago. If I smoked for that long and that much; haven't went back to it, then I'm sure you can stay off of 'em. Maybe not, I don't know. Anyway, do what you wanna do.