I'll update this posts with what I have gotten so far and I liked.
Cotton:amazon.com/Cotton-Labo-ORGANIC-Puff-200pc/dp/B000TCD51A
I love this stuff because it is easier to work with. It is squares that you can cut to fit without unrolling.
Mech:
http://www.angelcigs.com/stingray-x-style-stainless-steel-copper-mechanical-mod.html
This is my first mech mod. The voltage drop is about .5 but the price is nice. Fits 18650. If you want a mech I would recommend this as a starter just for the price so you can see if you like it.
Regulated Mod:
http://www.mtbakervapor.com/advanced-e-cigs/cana-dna-30-variable-wattage-mod/
This was my favorite regulated mod and I still recommend it to anybody that isn't building anything that needs more wattage to heat. Takes 1 18650 batter and has passtrhough charging so you can vape and charge.
http://www.eciggity.com/sigelei-100w-box-mod/
The Sigelei 100W is my favorite mod so far. But you only need it if you are going with some heavier builds. My favorite on it is a dual coil 8 wrap 24 gauge and quad coil 6 wrap 24 gauge that take forever to heat on a DNA30. For $25 more than the DNA30, this one is pretty future proof.
I ordered a coil jig but found a precision set of screwdrivers to be better. amazon.com/Herco-HE826-Mini-Screwdriver-Kit/dp/B000CCUFT2
For kanthal, you can look around. I get most of mine from Amazon since I'm a fan, but it's all kanthal. I recommend against getting specialty wire though unless you have spare $$ and really want to try it.
For RDAs, I love my plume veil clone, but I highly recommend a physical store instead of online if you can since mine had to be taken back 3 times. Also, westocastvapesupply has great customer service so it is safe, but it was about a week wait for deliver. I just got a Poseidon for a quad build that is fun.
Also, I highly recommend the Orchid V2 or V4 for an RBA. If you want a tank for the road, this is my favorite.