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  1. Rhianne

    Rhianne Diamond Contributor ECF Refugee

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    Howdy, if anyone can spare some nic base for Amber, please let me or @Jimi know.

    She’s broke now and needs to mix soon. Thanks!
     
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    I have some juice I could send, if that helps...
     
  3. Rhianne

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    Let me ask her. I,haven’t heard from her in a day or so, but I know she was upset that she was running out of nic.

    I’ll have to get her address from her anyway!

    Thanks, VF. I’m sure she’ll appreciate it. :hug:
     
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    Does Amber not have internet access any more? Can she not come and talk to us about this herself?

    I just recently sent her 120ml of 100mg nic, so I won't be able to send more now. I don't understand this at all.
     
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  5. Rhianne

    Rhianne Diamond Contributor ECF Refugee

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    She’s living with her in laws, and her FIL is on her case about being online. Like she’s neglecting her kid by being on VU.

    I haven’t heard from her in days, but last time I did, she mentioned needing more nic. But the amount you sent should’ve lasted her for a while.

    Who knows. I was trying to help her now.
     
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    Rhianne Diamond Contributor ECF Refugee

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    I thought about it, and I think Amber was thinking about needing nic for months ahead. Like maybe she’s thinking she may not be around VU pretty much and in light of May and corona, wants to be stocked up as well as can be.
     
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    Tempers are getting short with being forced to stay inside and the FIL might have shutoff the Internet. I know that here it is starting to get to us a little bit but I am trying my damnedest to keep the mood civil and cheery~!
     
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    Maybe, but all of this bs started weeks ago. Her FIL is meant to be taking manic meds, but doesn’t want to.
    He gangs up on Amber because he can and because she’s polite and won’t yell back. Uncool!

    Then he starts in with “use the Bible app” stuff. :crazy:

    Did you end up going to Mass, btw?
     
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    Mass? No~! If I want to pray I can do that here but the only praying in my future is to my Mossberg 12 Guage.
     
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    Wasn’t it you who said you were going to Mass today? Or is my stuffy nose blocking my brain?
     
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    I think that’s a Mossberg!!
     
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    No sorry it wasn't me who was planning on going to mass and that was a typo~!
     
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    Oh well. I wouldn’t go anyways, now. I saw a vid on YT where a Priest was doing drive through confession, because of corona!!
     
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    My higher power is right here and lets just hope it doesn't need to reap its wrath on anyone in the near future or at all. Because it's wrath is something to fear.
     
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    I believe you, so just please don’t point the wrath my way.

    Hey, please remember I’m your friend!
     
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    she shouldn't talk back, its not her house. her husband should stick up for her. if the fil doesn't watch his step, he may end up not seeing the kids again, after they move out.
     
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    @Rhianne you have nothing to worry about hun~!

    [​IMG]
     
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    I meant her FIL was uncool. I think he figures she’s a soft target. I agree, if you’re crashing with someone, you’ve go to be polite. They are paying rent though, so it’s not like they’re totally freeloading!
     
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    i know what you meant, idk if you know what i meant.

    no, he's a dictator. he is trying to force his beliefs on someone else.

    both sides should be polite. but the home owner can have "some" rules that should be adhered to. don't come home drunk, bring over dirt bags, park on the lawn, eat "his" food, etc. now, the HO can't say "i don't like what you do on the internet" or, "read my bible" = none of his focking business, fuck him. rent or not.
     
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    I’m just hoping she and her husband aren’t fighting now. They went through a bad patch and this could make it worse, imo. Plus her youngest boy is upset seeing the family argue.

    I agree, as long as she takes care of the kid, what she does online is her business. Trying to force religion or the Bible on someone is such a bad idea. It just turns people off to it!


    But ground rules are ground rules. But Bible app...
     
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    Not hearing from Someone especially with the circumstances now is means for concern. I hope we hear from her and someone should trade phone numbers next time she pops up~!
     
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    yep. but hopefully she is just cutting back just to not rock the boat.

    yeah Rhi, you should get her #.
     
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    I’ll see if I can get her attention in a PM. She’s only been around once or twice in the last few weeks, and she was very upset. She hadn’t even been painting since she was so upset.

    Her FIL doesn’t like her vaping and “lets” her do it a few times a day. She needs to find a place with her old man really soon. It would drive me crazy living with people like that!!
     
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    She can't go paint that will be closed.
     
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    She wasn’t even painting when it was open, though.
     
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    She won't be able to now is my point. No community places are open.
     
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    Tyrants like him can pick out the people who won't or can't fight back. Deep down they are fucking cowards and will only pick on people who can't damage them in return.

    You're damn right her husband should defend her, you know that he knows what his own father is like.

    Bad situation, and even worse when laid on top of everything else that's happening now.
     
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    like father like son.
    poor amber
     
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    lets HOPE that is not the case, she should know him well enough by now. that is unless they are not married(i think they are), because people can be known to change like a clock after getting married. and maybe he is also afraid of his dad.


    yeah, that sucks. lets hope its not as bad as it seems.
     
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    Her hubs threatened to divorce her during the winter. They were going through all kinds of shit, and then they went to marriage counseling. And they made up.

    But before she disappeared, she mentioned not getting along with him again. So who knows?
     
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    i hope she has a "plan B" .
     
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    Back when the shit was going on we gave her some advice but I am hoping it is just lack of Internet Access.
     
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    have you tried her FACEBOOK account??

    start leaving messages there..
    I don't have facebook...never have.
    YET as i understand it... peer pressure can be a GREAT influencer.
    start out weaker then ramp it up...
    where is AMBER PETTI??? have you seen THIS GIRL.
    find amber.jpg
     
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    I just sent her a message on Facbook so maybe she will get it on her phone.
     
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    OK, I got in touch right away and she is OK.

    Her own words...................

    "Let everyone know I love them all and miss them too. I’m just dealing with a lot and this virus doesn’t help."
     
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    She will answer any of your questions if she gets a chance to pop in later.

    Amber:
    "Thank you for reaching out my love! I hope you’re doing well and staying safe!"
     
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    I’m glad she’s okay. At least we can get in touch with through FB.
     
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    @DaBunny 's Milk Cartoon gave her a smile I posted the picture to her~!
     
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    I’m not a detective, she doesn’t need to answer questions! I’m just relieved she’s okay, especially now.
     
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    Well she told me a bunch of stuff in the message but I don't feel it is my place to post it and I asked her to which said to do whatever I wanted. But I will leave it up to her.
     
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    I kinda can imagine what’s up. If she comes around, I’ll speak to her. Thanks, Steve.
     
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    THANKS nice to know she got at least ONE good smile in today.
     
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    If it wasn't for you mentioning Facebook I might not have thought of it. But then I remembered she had posted a link to her artwork so I friended her. Did not expect such a fast response but sure enough it opened messenger on her phone.
     
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    well i could not forget her self portrate. { Love that painting }
    so of course i would recall she has facebook. cuz thats where i saw it.
    I just don't have or really want an account.

    this entire neighborhood is on facebook...
    and way to much info for my taste is shared.

    { yet thats how i figured out about all da peer pressure}
     
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    Like the old saying.......... If we stick together we will get through this~!
     
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