I had to listen to the nag, nag, nag, last night as he straightened up the kitchen table -- he blames me for all the stuff that accumulates, when it's really 50/50 -- I'm a handy target because I *am* so disorganized. But he knows very well what happens if he "straightens up" *my* stuff and then I can't find it -- I call him at work and give him a yard of shit till he tells me where he put it! I'm one of those whose stuff may be all over the place... but I know exactly where everything is; if it gets "straightened up," then my "indexing" is GONE!
I think it's just a symptom of ADD or something... the only thing organized in my house are my kitchen cabinets (and his stuff, which I would never touch), and those only because I need to be able to find stuff when I'm cooking.
Andria