There are many variables, including diameter of the coil which can affect wicking speed just like how tight the wicking is in the coil, air flow, depth of the juice well, type of coil (simple spaced, tightly wound contact coil, twisted wire, parallel, clapton, fused clapton, etc), which affects your resistance (Ohms) and how high in power you have to run. Generally higher the wattage, faster the liquid needs to wick and thus wicking type can play a major factor here, standard cotton balls as wicking the fibers kinda over lap and criss cross, and generally shorter, basically a tangled mess which can cause bottle necks, where as you are seeing with Ko Gen Do or Muji cotton that come in pads, the fibers are longer and straighter, allowing for effortless and quick wicking. Airflow plays a good portion to the harsh or not harsh hit, airflow is their to move air, vortex it properly, and key, it moving across hot metal that is evaporating a liquid, thermo-dynamics it cools things down. There are a lot of physics not seen going on inside that tank/dripper/rda/atomizer, essentially creating the perfect ultimate flavorful storm cloud we enjoy.
Depth of the juice well, more liquid that can rest in the bottom and be pulled up by the wicks, the longer between drips, just enough wicking needs to touch and rest on the bottom to pull the excess juice up, but not be to much to restrict airflow and proper air vortexing of cool air and warm/hot humid air.
Dry hits, ughhhh, if you've ever had a dry hit, closest analogy I can give is someone punching you in the throat hard and after used an air compressor to shoot a blast of hot, dry air down your throat. Anyone and everyone has or eventually will have a dry hit, get careless while drunk forgetting to drip, put out mod to our lips, fire on almost dry wicking and coil, bang, down we go to the floor coughing and weezing while our buddies all laugh their arses off at our stupidity, wake up in the morning forgetting we left the mod dry, bang, same comical weezing scene. Over time, veterans learn the feel and flavor of wicking getting to be not fully dry but close, flavor drops, vape isn't as moist and damp as it should be, gives kind of a "Scratchy" desert summer air feeling. One step closer to a dry hit, which is basically what you are kind of describing what you are "Now" experiencing. Trust me, first actual dry hit you'll never forget it.
Depending on my RDA used, and type of coil, most of mine are lowered powered flavor chasing setups, I can get about 8 to 20 hits deeply dependent on the juice well of the RDA and my wattage. My Velocity RDA with a pair of parallel 26awg 3.5mm contact 0.25 to 0.3ohm coils at about 35watts I can get around 18 or so hits before a redrip, where with Helios with 28awg 2mm spaced 0.5ohm coils at about 20watts I get about 10hits before needing a redrip.