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Jimi

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Break-19 said:
As sad as that situation is Jimi my mom is having second thoughts about she should have never started Chemo...the port in her neck hurts and is uncomfortable and going for treatments is hard on her because the cancer has spread throughout her entire body despite chemo therapy and radiation treatments lately..she has lesions all the way down into her abdomen ...
Her hair has fallen out, arms are swollen and puffy along with her face and neck...pain is unbearable as the doctor has changed to more powerful meds in last couple of days...home hospice is doing the best they can making her comfortable.. but as these final days pass by her pain seems to getting worse, right down into her bones...sad indeed to see my mom in such bad shape...

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I am so sorry to hear that Break it's a cruel disease I am still praying for you, your mom and your family. I have heard this before about chemo that is why it is such a hard decision. If I knew it would make a positive improvement for sure then I would definitely do it.
 
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Break-19 said:
As sad as that situation is Jimi my mom is having second thoughts about she should have never started Chemo...the port in her neck hurts and is uncomfortable and going for treatments is hard on her because the cancer has spread throughout her entire body despite chemo therapy and radiation treatments lately..she has lesions all the way down into her abdomen ...
Her hair has fallen out, arms are swollen and puffy along with her face and neck...pain is unbearable as the doctor has changed to more powerful meds in last couple of days...home hospice is doing the best they can making her comfortable.. but as these final days pass by her pain seems to getting worse, right down into her bones...sad indeed to see my mom in such bad shape...

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You and yours will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
 
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Break-19 said:
As sad as that situation is Jimi my mom is having second thoughts about she should have never started Chemo...the port in her neck hurts and is uncomfortable and going for treatments is hard on her because the cancer has spread throughout her entire body despite chemo therapy and radiation treatments lately..she has lesions all the down into her abdomen ...
Her hair has fallen out, arms are swollen and puffy along with her face and neck...pain is unbearable as the doctor has changed to more powerful meds in last couple of days...home hospice is doing the best they can making her comfortable.. but as these final days pass by her pain seems to getting worse, right down into her bones...sad indeed to see my mom in such bad shape...

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I'm not much of a religious type but I will pray that the pain will leave her bub.
I hated seeing my aunt go threw it. She found out she had breast cancer (3) in 1989. They gave her a year to live. She did chemo and all and went into remission. Then in the mid 90s it spread to the liver and kidneys. They started chemo treatments again and once again kinda kicked its but for a bit but she kept getting worse and worse. In 2006 she finally passed away. When they did her autopsy, they found the cancer had spread everywhere from brain to butt...
it was the hardest thing for a young me to understand why my aunt was always loopy and hardly lucid. They had her sooo doped up on morphine for the pain that she wasn't even Sharon anymore. She was a zombie to the drugs she needed to survive.
A few years after she had passed, my uncle told us, Sharon said if she knew how badly chemo was going to effect her, she never would have done it.
It's a sad cycle bro.
But anyways prays for your momma. I can tell your good people and don't need this shit going on in your life bub.

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itsmenotyou said:
I'm not much of a religious type but I will pray that the pain will leave her bub.
I hated seeing my aunt go threw it. She found out she had breast cancer (3) in 1989. They gave her a year to live. She did chemo and all and went into remission. Then in the mid 90s it spread to the liver and kidneys. They started chemo treatments again and once again kinda kicked its but for a bit but she kept getting worse and worse. In 2006 she finally passed away. When they did her autopsy, they found the cancer had spread everywhere from brain to butt...
it was the hardest thing for a young me to understand why my aunt was always loopy and hardly lucid. They had her sooo doped up on morphine for the pain that she wasn't even Sharon anymore. She was a zombie to the drugs she needed to survive.
A few years after she had passed, my uncle told us, Sharon said if she knew how badly chemo was going to effect her, she never would have done it.
It's a sad cycle bro.
But anyways prays for your momma. I can tell your good people and don't need this shit going on in your life bub.

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Appreciate that itsme, thanks, :)

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always9988 said:
Yeah usually they'll break long sessions up into different appointments, no more than 4 hours each. That's when people start getting light headed and the artist needs a good break. At least that's how my guy/ shop handles them
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The 1st time I went, the dude looked at me, held out a jar full of suckers and asked me to have one. "No, I'm fine." him - "That wasn't a question." OK, fine, I'll eat the damn candy.... dude told me I was green, lol.

2nd time... after he finished up, he stretched his hands, looked me dead in the eye and said, "let's go ride go carts".

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Jimi said:
I am so sorry to hear that Break it's a cruel disease I am still praying for you, your mom and your family. I have heard this before about chemo that is why it is such a hard decision. If I knew it would make a positive improvement for sure then I would definitely do it.
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Buddy, as much as it sucks to have to say, I would probably give it a try. If it makes you feel worse, stop treatment.
You deserve to enjoy your life. Not require machines and constant drugs to survive, but if it's the only way to do it....

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itsmenotyou said:
But the typical 18-25 year old just thinks, let's go get some tribal bands so I can fuck more bitches.
They don't realize when a needle is BENT ALL TO HELL. Kinda scary that people go to get tats without proper forethought. You end up with jimbo from down the way with a sewing machine foot pedal and a motor from whatever they could find to use.

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To be fair, ive seen legit artists use pretty ghetto machines. Theres a difrence between not wanting to shell out alot of money for equipment and being dirty. They guy i got mine from had 2 machines to do two difrent jobs. One was an old school rig older then me held together with spit and gum the ither was new. But the needles where clean and he knew what he was doin. (Old biker tattooing for 45+ years) he used the old rig for more old school tattoos. (He explained what kind of difrence it made but i forget how he explained it)
 
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itsmenotyou said:
Buddy, as much as it sucks to have to say, I would probably give it a try. If it makes you feel worse, stop treatment.
You deserve to enjoy your life. Not require machines and constant drugs to survive, but if it's the only way to do it....

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Well even with the chemo I will still have to do all the drugs they are giving me now, they say I will have 2-4 yrs without it, 3-5 with it it's kind of sucks' but I am hoping they come up with some cure for it
 
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Been lurkin around a bit the last few days, not much to say I guess. I did want to say though,, to Jimi, and Break and his mom and anyone else out there facing that disgusting disease that my heart goes out to you all. Watching my father go through chemo was the absolute worst. It gave him an extra 6 months but they were not quality months. And it made me decide that if I ever face that dreaded diagnosis I would not put myself through that. Personal decision, and really depends on the type and severity I guess but I'm one of those that does not trust traditional medicine. And I WORK in traditional medicine. Whatever you decide to do, Jimi, will be the best decision for you and we will all support you the best we can (being strangers in a strange place). Anyway, I just wanted to say that. That I think of you daily, that I feel for you, that if I was a prayer I'd pray for you too. And anyone else who faces that road.

Now can we go back to something fun cuz I'm sitting here at work with leaky eyeballs


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Jimi said:
Well even with the chemo I will still have to do all the drugs they are giving me now, they say I will have 2-4 yrs without it, 3-5 with it it's kind of sucks' but I am hoping they come up with some cure for it
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The choice is yours ultimately buddy. We want you around with us forever buddy. We love ya here man.

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Jimi said:
Well even with the chemo I will still have to do all the drugs they are giving me now, they say I will have 2-4 yrs without it, 3-5 with it it's kind of sucks' but I am hoping they come up with some cure for it
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Id say do whatever feels right to you.

Also id like to add that other then that i dont really know what else to say
 
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kimber said:
Been lurkin around a bit the last few days, not much to say I guess. I did want to say though,, to Jimi, and Break and his mom and anyone else out there facing that disgusting disease that my heart goes out to you all. Watching my father go through chemo was the absolute worst. It gave him an extra 6 months but they were not quality months. And it made me decide that if I ever face that dreaded diagnosis I would not put myself through that. Personal decision, and really depends on the type and severity I guess but I'm one of those that does not trust traditional medicine. And I WORK in traditional medicine. Whatever you decide to do, Jimi, will be the best decision for you and we will all support you the best we can (being strangers in a strange place). Anyway, I just wanted to say that. That I think of you daily, that I feel for you, that if I was a prayer I'd pray for you too. And anyone else who faces that road.

Now can we go back to something fun cuz I'm sitting here at work with leaky eyeballs


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Thanks Kimber don't cry for me we all have to go sometime it might seem like we are strangers but we are notcause we are all family here.
 
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Well it's clouding-up here in the Southland.. Suppose to get a heavy drenching all night long..
And to think I just mowed all the weeds down too! lol

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Jimi said:
I don't know why I opened my big mouth I wasn't going to say anything to anyone about this. sorry
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Don't go there, buddy. We get sad because we care, I've shared Kimber's tears with this because it does make me sad when someone that seems to share love so much has to struggle with something so horrible. I know you're not physically alone, but you'll also never be alone because of us. I would like to meet you just long enough to hug you, look you square in the eye, share a smile and tell you how pleased I am to know you. You've given everyone here so much joy, so much love and so many laughs.

We WANT to know how you are, whether you feel good or bad. We want to help you smile, laugh, scream or even cry. Sometimes kicking our feet like little kids is the only thing that actually makes us feel any better. We're all one in the same here, buddy.

I've gotten to know enough people here just through words, that I've shared happiness, sadness, fear, real tears and a whole lot of laughs. Hell I like you guys more than I do some of my real life peeps.

So Jimi... zip ya lip and let us love you, now matter what you're going through. ;)

We love you man. I mean that, we mean that. And there ain't nothin' you can do about it.

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Huckleberried said:
Don't go there, buddy. We get sad because we care, I've shared Kimber's tears with this because it does make me sad when someone that seems to share love so much has to struggle with something so horrible. I know you're not physically alone, but you'll also never be alone because of us. I would like to meet you just long enough to hug you, look you square in the eye, share a smile and tell you how pleased I am to know you. You've given everyone here so much joy, so much love and so many laughs.

We WANT to know how you are, whether you feel good or bad. We want to help you smile, laugh, scream or even cry. Sometimes kicking our feet like little kids is the only thing that actually makes us feel any better. We're all one in the same here, buddy.

I've gotten to know enough people here just through words, that I've shared happiness, sadness, fear, real tears and a whole lot of laughs. Hell I like you guys more than I do some of my real life peeps.

So Jimi... zip ya lip and let us love you, now matter what you're going through. ;)

We love you man. I mean that, we mean that. And there ain't nothin' you can do about it.

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Thanks Huck that makes me feel so good you truly a sweetheart and i love you and everyone here.I just hate to bring any sadness into anyones lives, when I do I feel like crawling under a rock or something.
 
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