Yes, he quite possibly is that indeed. I would not call him that directly though. He might be like me in that respect, 'hangs back all mellow' and only steps in when and where needed for a gentle course of things correcting. I don't exactly hide from being head of household, in fact three different grandfather's sort of dropped 'head of three houses' at my feet, chuckled and walked off. I was no where near ready. To them there was no such state as 'not ready'.
As I say I don't hide but I prefer to use a gentle hand. Besides that I'm nothing but a shadow, or flicker of passing Light as it runs off to go do the next six needed things. Nothing here to me without a family or three, they're the 'big dogs' in my eyes. Figure if
@raymo2u is anywhere like that, he too kind of hangs back and denies being anything but 'some guy'. *grin* "I am Sparticus but then so is
@gbalkam,
@Train,
@chopdoc,
@snake94115, and you, yourself." *grin*
Imagine a mod squad coming through where we're all hung out for a bit. "Who is your group's leader," the captain of their vanguard barks.
"I think it's my day, or maybe it was
@DogMan 's, hm might have been
@SirVtHondaGuy08 's day but he pawned it off on somebody. I'll be your daisy, though, " I chime in and then someone else tells him that I'm the damn nut job that don't know nuthin, they're the daisy and so on it goes.