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gopher_byrd

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Ok I need some opinions
For the last6 months I have started losin weight again,
I eat like a horse all day long and include all of carbs within my diet that I can have, even went off my regular diet and included a big Salmon dinner every other week for the fats in it.
I am down 126 and that's a little thin for a man 5' 9" tall, every couple weeks I lose a few pounds and no matter how much I eat I can not gain an ounce,
Well Jean says I need to go to doctor but I don't like/trust/care for doctors, they all all after one thing $.
Do you think she's right?
Thank you :hug:
I think I found what you lost... 🤣

All kidding aside, I agree with Snap and think you should see your primary care doctor. I understand why you don't trust doctors now, but there has to be some out there that are good and caring. I've been lucky with my primary care doc and orthopedic surgeon.
 

Jimi

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Thank you @SirKadly and @SnapDragon NY for your thoughts, weird thing is I honestly do eat all day, jean say I eat more than I ever have, I have turned into an eatin machine but keep loosin :crazy: , just crazy. Last time I talked to a doctor about it he told me to eat a bunch of stuff that I can't, he says I am crazy that food wont hurt you, so I told him I may be crazy but I am still alive:rolleyes:
 

Jimi

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I think I found what you lost... 🤣

All kidding aside, I agree with Snap and think you should see your primary care doctor. I understand why you don't trust doctors now, but there has to be some out there that are good and caring. I've been lucky with my primary care doc and orthopedic surgeon.
I just fired my primary about a year ago, so hard to find a good one.
Thank you for your thoughts my friend
 

Jimi

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I think I found what you lost... 🤣

All kidding aside, I agree with Snap and think you should see your primary care doctor. I understand why you don't trust doctors now, but there has to be some out there that are good and caring. I've been lucky with my primary care doc and orthopedic surgeon.
Thank you for your thoughts my friend. I might haveta break down and go see one if it don't change. It ain't like I am just naturally slim, before I started my cancer diet I was 265 but I have been 140 145 for about 7 years now and always keep that weight.
 

Bliss Doubt

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Ok I need some opinions
For the last6 months I have started losin weight again,
I eat like a horse all day long and include all of carbs within my diet that I can have, even went off my regular diet and included a big Salmon dinner every other week for the fats in it.
I am down 126 and that's a little thin for a man 5' 9" tall, every couple weeks I lose a few pounds and no matter how much I eat I can not gain an ounce,
Well Jean says I need to go to doctor but I don't like/trust/care for doctors, they all all after one thing $.
Do you think she's right?
Thank you :hug:

No, I don't believe in doctors either and I'm afraid they would slip you a poison dart.

My only theory Jimi is that you think you're eating a lot but you're not. You probably feel full petty quickly. Eat more. Eat a meal every hour. Eat more protein than carbs. Chickpea "tuna" salad sandwiches on your warrior bread, portobello pizzas filled up with vegan cheese, apples dipped in plain peanut butter. Then have fresh organic strawberries with Miyokos vegan cream cheese whipped, topped with toasted pecans. Make some of those medjool caramel apples and eat one as often as you think about it.

That's all I can guess or say when all I see is a bear. Bears eat all day long.

Try keeping a food journal, and you'll see you're not eating as much as you think, especially for your activity level.
 

Jimi

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Thank you my friend, I eat like a horse, honestly, here's what I had today
3 helpings of oatmeal w/ dates, organic apple, and two hug handfuls of organic walnuts
20 minutes later 2 organic oranges and half a pound of organic peanuts
An hour later, and this is new, 3 slices of organic sourdough bread w/Miyokos butter
then I had to go get Jeans scripts but when I got back I ate a huge bowl of organic broccoli w/miy butter a lemon and 3 baked taders
that held me for about an hour then the other half pound of peanuts went.
later I had Salmon, stuffed mushrooms, a big bowl of broccoli
Had 2 pears for desert and workin on an apple right now.
I eat till I feel like I am gonna explode and still loosin :facepalm:
 

Bliss Doubt

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Ok I need some opinions
For the last6 months I have started losin weight again,
I eat like a horse all day long and include all of carbs within my diet that I can have, even went off my regular diet and included a big Salmon dinner every other week for the fats in it.
I am down 126 and that's a little thin for a man 5' 9" tall, every couple weeks I lose a few pounds and no matter how much I eat I can not gain an ounce,
Well Jean says I need to go to doctor but I don't like/trust/care for doctors, they all all after one thing $.
Do you think she's right?
Thank you :hug:

Jimi, when I add up all the items you listed there, that's concerning that you can't put on weight.

3 cups oatmeal @ 190 cal. per cup = 570
Dates, one cup divided over the three servings oatmeal? = 415 cal.
Two huge handfuls walnuts = a cup? = 700
Two apples in your day @ 95 cal. each = 190
Two oranges @ 70 cal. each = 140
Two pears @ 100 cal. each = 200
Three slices sourdough bread plus the vegan butter = approx 220 cal x 3 = 660 (1/2 tablespoon vegan butter incl. per slice)
A pound of peanuts in your day, shelled? If shelled, 2575 cal. If in the shell and you pop them out to eat, far fewer calories in the pound bag.
3 large potatoes @ 110 cal. each x 3 = 330
Huge bowl broccoli, I've often said those calories just don't count (the nutrients count), but the vegan butter, 2 tablespoons = 180 cal (90 x 2)
Salmon - 8 oz? = 320 cal.
Stuffed mushrooms - mushroom calories negligible, but I'm guessing stuffed with a wild rice mixture or a vegan cheese or something, hard to calculate, so I'll estimate 350 calories the serving.

Total estimate: 6630 calories

Do you really eat that way every day? Or is it twice a week you have the time and the rest of the days you're so busy you have to remember to eat?

You were talking about being unable to gain weight in February of last year, 2023, in my diet thread. You were down to 132. My questions are still these: I can tell your appetite is good, but is your digestion good, and overall are you feeling well (accounting for the stress you're under with Jean's medical situation)?

Do you still exercise two hours in the morning? That will burn a lot of the calories you're consuming. I would never tell anybody to stop exercising. It's more important than diet, but maybe replacing some of your hard exercise with gentle yoga, stretching, balance exercises, could be an option for both the physical effects and the calming of your stress. Only you can say, but I observe your routine of two hours morning exercise, taking care of Jean, cooking for both of you, cleaning the house, shopping, hauling, Jean's medical appointments, your routine appointments for blood work. How much stress can affect weight I don't really know. Stress tends to make me eat more and get a little out of control at the end of the day, but some people will worry themselves skinny, if that makes sense.

Finally, can you see a dietitian before you seek out some MD who has had maybe two hours training in nutrition in med school if any at all.

I don't want to veer dangerously into the territory of trying to be your doctor, but I do come by my granny healer skills honestly. It's very concerning if you really are eating that way every day yet losing weight. It seems you're just not getting nourished by your food. What you describe has plenty of protein, fats and carbs. All the fruits and veg are giving you good vitamins and minerals. It wouldn't be an insult, the way you work outdoors for several months of the year, digging in the dirt, with wild critters all around, to wonder if you've contracted a parasite.

I'm glad you found a way to enjoy some good bread though. Sourdough is a fermented food, with the resulting benefits of the ferment.

I hope you'll keep us posted.
Add one avocado per hour with your homemade salsa mashed up in it (the millionaire's diet) 😸
 

Bliss Doubt

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jazz is for ordinary people -berlioz

I like that ninja kitty, or maybe more accurately samurai kitty. Looks like he can get the job done.

I started reading about ninjas when I started playing in this thread. I read somewhere that when a ninja has completed a mission successfully he has to commit seppuku so he can never be caught, tortured and made to tell his secrets. Now I can't find the reference.
 

Bliss Doubt

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My good thing for today: it's only 11am and already I changed my bed sheets, at which time I pulled the bed out from the wall and vacuumed up so many dust bunnies I'm surprised I didn't see a giant bunny come out and hop away. I scrubbed the bathroom sink, counter, tub and throne, mopped the floor in there, and put out fresh towels. I made more of my DIY scented epsom salts and refilled the container.

I don't think I've ever in my life, anywhere I've lived, taken a pic of the bathroom, but here's one today. The bath mats are still rumpled from being folded in the laundry basket. I refill the cobalt plastic shampoo bottles over and over, and the cobalt reagant jar because the color makes old shabby paint and colors look better. The Niki de Saint Phalle perfume bottle still contains some eau de toilette, left over from the 90's. I keep it there because I like her art on the bottle, though I don't wear it anymore.

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