Not the first time I've delt with an angry female who was trying to make me look like a bad guy. Went through something much worse 1999-2000 when what became my ex-wife decided she didn't love me any more and was having an affair. When she decided to file for divorce she became very vicious, attacking, and bad-mouthing. I just told everyone that she has to live with what she has done and in my belief ultimately answer to God. I also told people that you reap what you sew (some people call it carma). So while it may be difficult to maintain composure while you are being attacked, in the end the world is a better place if you do. Sorry if this offends anybody, it's not meant to.
She didn't attack you. You attacked her... like an angry child... for not answering you promptly.