I know that I am not good doing numbers. That aside I use a mech mod.
I also know a few other things along with knowing my limitation of not being good at numbers.
1. I do need to at least have a bit of comprehension of Ohm's Law. I do grasp the basics of it.
2. I do need to know where to look and ask for help. There are calculators and guides online & if I still feel a bit lost I can come here or a few other vaping forums. I know too that in visiting these I need to be humble & grateful.
3. People love helping people and most people are generally good as a natural default state.
4. It only takes one person being a jerk to ruin a good thing.
5. Any choice I have is ultimately my own to make regardless of any advice/opinion I get from others. What this means is yes I can respect the opinion of others yet not exactly worship that/those opinion/s. It is up to me to discern my own path taking in a lot of opinions. That doesn't mean I need disrespect the views from others. It simply means I weigh those views against my own, against other views and so on.
6. There is a way to state diplomatically that is what you do. "Thanks for the advice everyone. Think I'll choose my path along the lines of, ... . Thanks again."
7. We all read stuff differently. So, we all got to allow ourselves and others room to grow, to have misunderstanding. Recently, I had a bad feeling over something I read from
@JuicyLucy &
@SteveS45 . What I thought I read was very disturbing to me, I felt a little betrayed, a big helping of self doubt as well. It turns out what I thought I read was just that, ...
what I thought ... but it was not what I had actually read. I went back and reread
what I thought I'd read and found out I was just in a bad mood that day. I could've easily read that both of them told me I am the greatest and I still would've taken it wrong. What I thought was not in what they wrote.
So yeah, I can agree that what
@JuicyLucy wrote above was not harsh, disrespectful in any way. I would tell you the same thing, possibly a bit more gruffly. My point being I'd tell you the same advice she did.