Thanks love just frustrating always being the bad guy. They'll understand eventually. On the plus side starting school very soon to get the ball rolling for good changes will be crazy all day every day but have to do itOoh. I was a kid in that kind of relationship. They might think it's "fun" today, but that stuff sticks with 'em, too, when they grow up. They don't hate you. They won't grow up hating you, either.