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AndriaD
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My husband told me that the first time he encountered me around an AA table and heard the things I was saying, he suddenly understood why God had wanted him to return to AA.
Andria
Jup! and I know my picker is broke.........so that's why I don't ever see me gittin hitched again. Would love to have a good healthy lovin relationship, but just don't really see it happening.
There ya go.......it's a date! well, you know lolYeah that's just a few hours I'm SE of Houston. And I have never been to 6th Street either and have always wanted to go, good reasons for a road trip.
Wowsers! Very good looking kids! Man, we wompers have some nice looking kids.
Give it a little bit longer, and I have a better version of that song that I'll be posting.
That's a double edged sword, but I think so absolutely yes. At first it was extremely hard having a 10 year routine over in a matter of a month or so and I did spiral a bit. The loneliness can be unbearable at times.
But eventually my health improved, didn't need anxiety meds, then several people asked if something happened because they saw a brightness in my eyes that had not been there for quite sometime. It was happiness and hope, things that had long since died living with someone you were afraid to wake up on accident in fear of the hell that would follow all day.
I really feel for the kids though they used to hide out in there room after waking up on the weekends never opening their doors to get breakfast or even a drink. All because no one wanted to wake the she-devil up, and they did not have the option to get away that I did.
GREAT to see you!!!
Yea I do love to talk. heheheheOr as old as the woman your feeling
Then again.......I don't feel 28 haha
I didn't make it yesterday, to much drama at home, hope you had a great time and your head isn't banging too much
Better try and catch up, the wompers are truly back, 5 pages to get through.
Morning Y'all
((((Debs))))
Yummy, enjoy and cograts on the Merlin
Better try harder then
So does Emily, your not alone lol, hope you feel better today though.
Epic !
I did it the other way around, woke up on the beach nude, that was a stressful walk back at 5am...well run and hide, not much walking involved.
He's going on a vacation so he's busy atm...
Drunken posts alert !! BadKad
WOW, Finally caught up, had some laughs along the way, oh Kad, I've been there sooooo many times, it's all good....not so good the next day...ya need some bacon n eggs buddy.
Now to catch up on the refugee thread, one day off, y'all talk to much ((((((Atcha))))))
Wow Reign. I'm sorry. She sounds like my sister.
But you know, it IS better to be alone that with the wrong one. I was alone for years. I mean YEARS. But it was good not stressing all the time. You'll find that "one".
Yippie!!!!!!!!! I fixed my sound. I should have worn my eyeglasses. It was a simple mute on youtube.Give it a little bit longer, and I have a better version of that song that I'll be posting.
Eskie, I made a promise to myself after I threw the ex boyfriend out that I would not settle for just anyone any more. There's a guy at work who's interested but I'm not attracted to him at all. All of my friends there say he would be an answer to a prayer, great guy, spoil me rotten etc but I'm not feeling it!
If it doesn't feel right, I wouldn't pursue it. It really has to be mutual or it will come back to hurt both of you. Still, I don't regret any of my relationships. OK, most, not all. some I don't know what I was thinking. I never wanted to be married a third time, but I can't complain as I have my beautiful daughter from that, and my ex and I have remained friends. We did not want our daughter to suffer for our mistakes.
Things happen in life that are unpredictable. Certainly in relationships. But however, it goes, make sure it feels right for you from the start. Then you just put all you have into making it work, and if it doesn't, recognize that and move forward.
Oh my god, I have no idea what I was trying to say! Your guess is as good as mine. No more drunk posting for me.
Wow Reign. I'm sorry. She sounds like my sister.
Well thank you but don't be sorry I'm not.
And it sounds a lot like me it's been 4 years since then and am still holding out. The Boss will have me land where I need to be and not sooner than I am ready.
Absolutely!!
Where were you with your relationship advice a few years ago? It took several years of unhappiness and discontent to understand what you said in just a few words. I could have used these words of wisdom about 5 or 6 years ago.
Thanks Atcha! Yes we do!!
Not meWhich one was it that almost ran you down with a lawn mower?
Andria
Many thanks, we are in love, Rixy is right, everyone needs to move on.
I'm so full I could poop all day
Everybody always remembers the lawn mower episode lol..
Thank you everyone, your words and support really help, it's just we try and be good people and this goes completely against how we want to treat a person but I love her too much not to..
I'm not mentioning it anymore (everybody, thinking, oh thank god LOL)
Me and Emily are together and that is that, I'm done with the guilt, done I tell ya.
Thank you everyone, your words and support really help, it's just we try and be good people and this goes completely against how we want to treat a person but I love her too much not to..
I'm not mentioning it anymore (everybody, thinking, oh thank god LOL)
Me and Emily are together and that is that, I'm done with the guilt, done I tell ya.
We posted at the same time and thanks for sharing that.
AndriaD
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My stepfather dated my aunt Betty years before he ever met my mother. But my aunt Betty didn't want to marry, or even get serious, so she said, "You should meet my sister." They've been married since 1968.
Andria
The only relationship that I've had and regretted was the ex boyfriend. I put my kids on the back burner for that man, to live the kind of life he wanted and do the things he wanted to do. And yes, I beat myself up pretty badly for awhile over it. He was/is a sociopath and it took me quite a few years to actually see it. He had been cheating on me for over a year and in the back of my mind, I knew it. It was only after the husband of the woman he was seeing sent me pics of them together that the rose colored glasses came off and I came to the realization that he had to go. Then, after I made him get the hell out, he tried to make it seem like the problem was me. Never again!
I think it's cute!!!
ThanksMy stepfather dated my aunt Betty years before he ever met my mother. But my aunt Betty didn't want to marry, or even get serious, so she said, "You should meet my sister." They've been married since 1968.
Andria
A mix of luvy duvys, singles and old miserable marrieds on here it seems.
AndriaD
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Awww and that is what it's all about, I'm pleased you found each other.I'm old and married, but not miserable -- I married my best friend!
Andria
I've never felt love like this before and I'm not just with for his vape gear
What's left of it
So did I.I'm old and married, but not miserable -- I married my best friend!
Andria
But the mental illness that runs in her mothers side of her family set in....
29th wedding anniversary today. The first half was nice...
Can't dump her because of the mental illness.....
I know.What's left of it
I'm so sorry to hear that and thank you for sharing it. That must be hard to watch.
Good excuse to get more!What's left of it
Took me many relationships to figure that one out. My other life lesson? It's not always my fault.
At least you finally recognized it. Now you can put time in with your kids and lead the life you want to. You'll know you find the right person when they feel your needs are just as important to be met as theirs.
I remember one relationship I was in with seemingly nice girl, bright, and fun to be with. My daughter must have been around 11 at the time, and we all went to a movie. At the end of the day, my girlfriend said I paid too much attention to my daughter and not enough on her. Needless to say, I ended that right then and there.
I can't think of anything I want / need anymore. I would like me Q Class back though !
AndriaD
Yes, I DO wear a mask! I'm vaccinated, too!
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Cool! We had our #29 in July -- next year's the big THREE-OH!
(and there better be some more diamonds involved, for my finger!) I had to wait 20 yrs to get diamonds in the first place! (and as for insanity -- we lived together for 10 months before we made it official, so we each knew the other was quite insane right from the get-go!)Andria
Yes hard on several different levels.
I have hung in there and never been unfaithful. although tempted...
Just wait till the 60 mm tanks and attys come out.
You do the best you can. I do hope there are some good days out of the bad ones mixed in there for you.
Thanks, yes a few. I am the one who has remembered our anniversary the last few years....
30mm is my limit these days.
And it's still meaningful to you. That's what's important.
I could imagine that tooI heard he was going to put in a bid on a water tower.
30mm is my limit these days.
But your journey to the dark side is not yet complete.