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Atchafalaya

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Fucked night, worse morning. Came to a realization being here was fun at first and I have greatly enjoyed talking with you all again, but in the end it just puts laser focus on my situation. So I am going to be taking a leave.

I wish you all the best and it was nothing anyone did I am just in a highly vulnerable and compromised situation and have to do what I can to keep trudging through every unbearably long day. For Marley of course, I've had a shit load of knocks and while they keep keeping me down they can't ever get rid of me.

Maybe I'll swing through one day if I ever find anything resembling happiness or peace but for now I leave you with this.


Catch you folks in the funny pages.
Gosh Reign. It was good having you back, but I understand. I'll be praying for you.
 

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Fucked night, worse morning. Came to a realization being here was fun at first and I have greatly enjoyed talking with you all again, but in the end it just puts laser focus on my situation. So I am going to be taking a leave.

I wish you all the best and it was nothing anyone did I am just in a highly vulnerable and compromised situation and have to do what I can to keep trudging through every unbearably long day. For Marley of course, I've had a shit load of knocks and while they keep keeping me down they can't ever get rid of me.

Maybe I'll swing through one day if I ever find anything resembling happiness or peace but for now I leave you with this.


Catch you folks in the funny pages.
Being on here is a bit of a bright spot in my otherwise miserable existence.
 

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Morning all! Still crappy weather and still feeling crappy around here, but at least it's Saturday.

Used the OBS Engine throughout the evening, went through 2 tanks (something I never do) and the flavor on that is amazing. Planning to spend some more quality time with it today, sit around, and relax.
Afternoon

Good morning kad, Rixy, Eskie and Deb :)

I can't believe I slept for 12 hours :eek: Woke up with a cough though and a tickly throat. :(
Hi Lynn, good news about your Son

Fucked night, worse morning. Came to a realization being here was fun at first and I have greatly enjoyed talking with you all again, but in the end it just puts laser focus on my situation. So I am going to be taking a leave.

I wish you all the best and it was nothing anyone did I am just in a highly vulnerable and compromised situation and have to do what I can to keep trudging through every unbearably long day. For Marley of course, I've had a shit load of knocks and while they keep keeping me down they can't ever get rid of me.

Maybe I'll swing through one day if I ever find anything resembling happiness or peace but for now I leave you with this.


Catch you folks in the funny pages.

All the best brother !

How do you know when she's on the phone? Are you spying on her? Do you have cameras and mics hidden in her house?
See you on porn hub lol
 

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ohhhhhh noooooooooo just when it woulda been good to not be able to smell. Thank goodness no one got sprayed, including the dogs.
Glad you're feeling a little better. Hope you're totally well soon!

It must have happened not long before I went outside the first time, because when Rich and I went out to do "regular" chores just now, it was almost gone. Just a faint smell of it here and there. I smelled it in the house, faintly, after I got up this morning, and all the windows and doors were closed, so maybe that's when it happened. Anyway, it's mostly gone now, whew!

And thank you, yes, I'm feeling a LOT better today. I'm mostly just tired right now, but my last fever seems to have broken earlier this morning, and I'm feeling mostly human again. Yesterday was a total write-off! LOL!
 

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That is strange...
Oddly enough, it is perfectly normal. Weather (i.e., clouds with rain) come surrounding low pressure centers. The air moves around Lows in a counter-clockwise manner, so if the Low was centered in Indiana in Kad's picture, those clouds would rotate in such a way as to appear to be moving west in the west-through-north sides of the Low. As the low moves off (easterly), it will drag the system with it, but individual bands of clouds will still give the impression of moving the wrong way from a specific local viewpoint. Frontal clouds, on the other hand (which would be south-through-east of the Low) are being pushed by the approaching air mass and will generally move in an easterly to northeasterly direction.
 
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Oddly enough, it is perfectly normal. Weather (i.e., clouds with rain) come surrounding low pressure centers. The air moves around Lows in a counter-clockwise manner, so if the Low was centered in Indiana in Kad's picture, those clouds would rotate in such a way as to appear to be moving west in the west-through-north sides of the Low. As the low moves off (easterly), it will drag the system with it, but individual bands of clouds will still give the impression of moving the wrongs way from a specific local viewpoint. Frontal clouds, on the other hand (which would be south-through-east of the Low) are being pushed by the approaching air mass and will generally move in an easterly to northeasterly direction.
Somehow I KNEW you would have the answer. :D
 

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So...I left work last night because I was sick. I just checked my phone to find texts from a former coworker(she transferred from 2nd to 3rd before school started and basically left us in a huge bind) reaming me a new one because we left. Telling me crap like this is the reason we're on 7 days and so on and so on. Of course, she's the one who calls out at least twice a week because she has FMLA and uses her mom's health as a reason to stay home from work. :gaah::rolleyes:
 

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I had to "grow up" before I was even a teenager (mom divorced my father when I was 2, so as soon as I could walk, lift, carry, I became "the man of the house") but I have been trying very hard ever since to find my lost childhood. ;)
I had an idyllic childhood until I was 13, raped repeatedly by an uncle, and nothing I could say would convince my parents that it happened. From that point on, my childhood was over. I became an alcoholic at 15 and a coke junkie at 19. My mom finally accepted it to be true when I was 19 but by then there had been too much water over the bridge.
 

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Yea, it smells a little garlicy. hehehehehe

Sure does lol

I had an idyllic childhood until I was 13, raped repeatedly by an uncle, and nothing I could say would convince my parents that it happened. From that point on, my childhood was over. I became an alcoholic at 15 and a coke junkie at 19. My mom finally accepted it to be true when I was 19 but by then there had been too much water over the bridge.
Oh fuck, that's why you relate to Emmy, although she was never raped, that is terrible. Lets all have a group hug x. Just sharing that in the group is very brave of you, his time will come, maybe it already has. Love you Lynn :hug:

Sorry about the F bomb, kind of threw me on a mad one.
 
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Well hell. Hate that Reign is gone, shit, we just found him again! Glad to hear Lannie is feeling better, and also that the skunk reek is departing -- when I was pregnant, the guy who lived next door to us apparently ran over one, in the woods, and his vehicle stank for MONTHS it seemed like! As bad as that smell is.... you should try it when you're in early pregnancy. GACK!

Hate that Eskie and Lynn are still feeling poorly too. My tummy upset seems to have departed, thank GOD, but my lower back is still painful; maybe a bit better, but everytime I rolled over in bed, it notified me. :facepalm:

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Sure does lol


Oh fuck, that's why you relate to Emmy, although she was never raped, that is terrible. Lets all have a group hug x. Just sharing that in the group is very brave of you, his time will come, maybe it already has. Love you Lynn :hug:

Sorry about the F bomb, kind of threw me on a mad one.
It's already came Rixy. He died a slow, painful death due to cancer. Karma...:)
 

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So...I left work last night because I was sick. I just checked my phone to find texts from a former coworker(she transferred from 2nd to 3rd before school started and basically left us in a huge bind) reaming me a new one because we left. Telling me crap like this is the reason we're on 7 days and so on and so on. Of course, she's the one who calls out at least twice a week because she has FMLA and uses her mom's health as a reason to stay home from work. :gaah::rolleyes:
That stinks!
I had an idyllic childhood until I was 13, raped repeatedly by an uncle, and nothing I could say would convince my parents that it happened. From that point on, my childhood was over. I became an alcoholic at 15 and a coke junkie at 19. My mom finally accepted it to be true when I was 19 but by then there had been too much water over the bridge.
OMG Lynn that's awful. I am so sorry. :hug:
 

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It's already came Rixy. He died a slow, painful death due to cancer. Karma...:)
I was raped at 7 years old. By a neighbor of my grandmother's. My sister ended up walking in on it (she was 9) and neither of us told a soul until much later in life. We've only discussed it once or twice. I'm really surprised the doctor didn't say something. I had to go as a result of it. They acted (my mom and the doc) like they had no idea what could have caused what happened.
 
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Atchafalaya

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Well hell. Hate that Reign is gone, shit, we just found him again! Glad to hear Lannie is feeling better, and also that the skunk reek is departing -- when I was pregnant, the guy who lived next door to us apparently ran over one, in the woods, and his vehicle stank for MONTHS it seemed like! As bad as that smell is.... you should try it when you're in early pregnancy. GACK!

Hate that Eskie and Lynn are still feeling poorly too. My tummy upset seems to have departed, thank GOD, but my lower back is still painful; maybe a bit better, but everytime I rolled over in bed, it notified me. :facepalm:

Andria
I hate that he is gone too. He's so funny. And, my paranoia is kicking in thinking maybe I said something wrong. Even though he said no one did. :cry:
 

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I was raped at 7 years old. By a neighbor of my grandmother's. My sister ended up walking in on it (she was 9) and neither of us told a soul until much later in life. We've only discussed it once or twice. I'm really surprised the doctor didn't say something. I had to go as a result of it. They acted (my mom and the doc) like they had no idea what could have caused what happened.
Yep! My mom even alluded to the fact that I may have "asked" for it. WHAAAT??? I'm so sorry Atcha! :(
 

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I was raped at 7 years old. By a neighbor of my grandmother's. My sister ended up walking in on it (she was 9) and neither of us told a soul until much later in life. We've only discussed it one time. I'm really surprised the doctor didn't say something. I had to go as a result of it. They acted (my mom and the doc) like they had no idea what could have caused what happened.
Yeah like what in the world could it of been....it could only of been one thing, that makes me just as angry as the person that did it, those that protect these monsters are just as bad. Sorry for you too Atcha, as I said to Lynn today, it kind of makes me ashamed to be male, this should not happen to any female, at any age, especially when your a child. I hope you and Kad are happy for the rest of your lives xxxx....also brave to share.
 

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Yep! My mom even alluded to the fact that I may have "asked" for it. WHAAAT??? I'm so sorry Atcha! :(
Wow. I don't think my mom knew. But who knows. I never told her anything. Back then, these things were swept under the so-called rug. He had been molesting me for months before he finally raped me. Thank God children have the ability to block things out because I don't remember any pain. :eek: It's a lot more common than people think.
Well, I'm really off to go shop now. Tootles all!!:bunny:
 

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Yep! My mom even alluded to the fact that I may have "asked" for it. WHAAAT??? I'm so sorry Atcha! :(
That is something else that annoys me, when a woman dresses sexy (of course, I'm not in any way saying you did, it's just an example) but because a woman dresses like that, then they somehow ask for it, like it's their fault. As for being 13, how the hell can you have asked for it, like the actual rape wasn't bad enough, then your made to think it was your fault too, talk about being kicked when your down..

Good job we ain't on ECF, R1 would have been very busy today
 

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That is something else that annoys me, when a woman dresses sexy (of course, I'm not in any way saying you did, it's just an example) but because a woman dresses like that, then they somehow ask for it, like it's their fault. As for being 13, how the hell can you have asked for it, like the actual rape wasn't bad enough, then your made to think it was your fault too, talk about being kicked when your down..

Good job we ain't on ECF, R1 would have been very busy today
It was 1969 when I was 13, I lived in jeans, tshirts and high topped converse sneakers, nothing sexy about that. I was a tomboy, loved playing sports of any kind. I knew I didn't do anything wrong. They lived across the street and many times I was made to stay with them when my mom and dad were out. I finally reached the point that I refused. Oh the stories I could tell you all about that entire effed up family!
 

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I was raped at 7 years old. By a neighbor of my grandmother's. My sister ended up walking in on it (she was 9) and neither of us told a soul until much later in life. We've only discussed it once or twice. I'm really surprised the doctor didn't say something. I had to go as a result of it. They acted (my mom and the doc) like they had no idea what could have caused what happened.
Yep! My mom even alluded to the fact that I may have "asked" for it. WHAAAT??? I'm so sorry Atcha! :(

I feel so badly for you ladies, to have endured that kind of abuse not just from the rapist, but your own caregivers. My own stepfather got a little inappropriate with me when i was 17, but, 1) I was already sexually active, so it didn't scar me in any way, just made me goddamn furious, but 2) my own mother didn't believe me for many years, though she finally did come to believe me, and made him apologize -- for all the good that did! He said he was sorry, and I said well isn't that nice for YOU; then he asked if I forgave him, and I said I didn't know, that I would work on it. I finally did come to forgive him, because I had some dreams that showed me just what COULD have happened to the daughter of a divorced woman, if she had married some other guy... something like what you ladies suffered... and I realized that in the whole scheme of things, I'd gotten off pretty lightly in the sexual abuse dept. But I never did regain any trust in him; he shot that right to shit. I forgave him for 2 reasons: my mother loves him and depends on him, and yeah, I did escape anything worse.

And I'm peeved that Reign apparently felt unwelcome here. I missed the hell out of him, and then he showed up, and I was DELIGHTED! Now I'm disappointed. :(

Andria
 

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