Debs posted on the lounge thread, she said it wasn't her that reported it, I felt for her, she's all by herself over there now but I can't post there anymore to talk to her, I can't even bring myself to PM there, it makes me feel angry to even look at that dam forum now.
There are still a few people I like over there, but honestly, I don't have time to keep up with two forums. I might still cruise by there to follow a few threads, but that's about it for me
We have a maid but she doesn't cook, your right but it's this silly English tradition, Turkey is only for Christmas, it's always been that way, it always will be that way to me. It wouldn't feel right eating Turkey in the summer, I know, crazy but that's how it is.
Infact we have certain meals that we only eat at certain times of the year, gray peas and bacon for bonfire night, pancakes on shrove tuesday (once a year)
You have turkeys over there? Or do you import the leftover birds from Thanksgiving over here?
I don't doubt her. I do not think she is lying. It is possible that the claim was made by Classy that a user turned us in just to cover up for R1.
I wouldn't be at all surprised that's how it happened. I can't imagine anyone in that thread who would freak over those posts and actually report them. I'm also surprised R1 is still around given that I don't know of any fans for him over there.
I do get that a forum needs some sort of moderation. But for the average general topic forum, the median age is maybe what, 20? (not counting reddit, that place is just way too creepy for me). But look at the nature of this forum. We're almost all ex smokers stopping after 20 or more years of smoking. The median age can't be much below 45, if that. Sure, there may be a few young cloud chasers, but we're a bunch of freaking adults. How much moderation do we need? What are going to try and do, strangle each other with adult Depends?
Moderation needs to be properly mated to the demographic (style of moderation, not the age of the moderators). Problem is, this is probably the first time R1 had responsibility over more than maybe 2 or 3 people in his life (if that). His moderating skills, such as they are, sure don't reflect any knowledge or experience in people management (watch, it'll turn out he was really the head of an HR department somewhere, eh, that could still fit the bill).