i can't believe anyone lives with mice when there are kitties that need homes.
all the best things i know came from MOTHER EARTH NEWS.
*deep sigh* Well, ...
I do agree with you and would have a few cats inside, that I could. That's the rub though. I'm not nor is the wife allowed to have cats indoors or even indoor/outdoor cats here. It seems her smoking BIL has what he claims is asthma and allergies to cat fur. Oddly enough there were plenty of cats here at one time as he lived here, never a word of it. I think what changed was his boys. He feared they would be allergic and possibly one did show signs. Although I think both of them have outgrown their allergies to cats, both also no longer live here in the house. They moved in with their grandma.
Still we kind of walk on eggshells a bit so as to not tip a boat. We'd rather not be here but since my wife earned a dime raise H.U.D thought we could pay $400 for rent instead of $300 monthly, ergo, we had come back from our apartment. At least it had no mice or rats there. The maintenance crew as well as an extermination company kept those at bay from coming into the buildings. The buildings were slab foundations, no real way for them to get in. The biggest issue was tiny little ants and squash bugs coming in at odd times. I used borax for them.
So, yes would we could we'd have at least three cats here patrolling inside and out. Good micers too, none that didn't mouse. We're here temporarily as well. Hoping she will soon get her employee stock paying out roughly February. Then, she has some bigger things to catch up and get us clear. After we're socking the money back toward down payment funding. Looking for about 5 acres, a first and forever home/homestead in the $30,000 to $50,000 range for a mortgage we can keep around $200-$300 monthly so as to manage having it more apt to get paid off. We're looking into a few different government funded options for some help mortgage wise, fixed and locked rates.
I do intend to do some farming, even if merely hobby for us to eat on, surplus to barter/sell. Not going to farm "hard" but hard as in working "smarter" not harder. I'm realizing my age and know I only have so much I can or will be able to do, or manage. Figure the biggest part will be for me alone too. Don't mind that at all, just is what it is and in knowing it, can figure how I want to do. We don't want a mansion or grand estate, just something modest we can work and make nice for ourselves, keep it ours. Yeah, we do know a few things we're not compromising but we also know what basics are needed and can compromise some if needed.
We've even taken the state required home buyer's course, got 89% on it, needed only 80%. We know a bit regarding what we're getting into. Just the "getting there" to get to it. In that, we need to do what we need to for the moment. Unfortunately, that required us needing to come back here. You think I as a husband really want my wife sleeping with mice crawling all over her? If so, you best think again for quite a spell. I promised her granddad and loathe to compromise on that in any way. He also knew me and her are survivors, we do what we need, take life as it comes. I know he would understand. I also know just as I know I don't like it, he wouldn't either. But, here we are for a temporary bit.
Also much as I would love to be able to locate reasonable work outside the home for myself. It keeps eluding me and has for quite a while now. I don't feel right in needing to run 80-100 miles a day to and from a $10 hour job. To me that don't pay for car upkeep, insurance, fuel much less a decent wage to live on. I used to work all kinds of fast food. Well, I'm no high school kid anymore and I don't want to take a manager position at fast food.I've worked farms of various kinds. There's a few around with "bosses" but they got the hands they need and it's "tight" for everyone here 'bouts. Gone are the days too of a smile, handshake getting you on somewhere. I've also done janitor work but shit, 200 in line for anything of that open. It's not that I don't want to work, it's that by the time a listing is out, it's filled four times over. As said, "tight" all over for everybody.
As a young boy into young man years I've done nearly every kind of "shit" work there is to do and then some not listed in the "book of shit work". I also had my fair share of playing hard to match the hard working I did. I'm the lot what they put in place of four to six men, "here you cover all these different jobs. somebody might relieve you, sometime, maybe, ...". I didn't give a fuck, it was all fun to me. My granddads all tried working me to death too. I took it all in stride. The young bucks take care of the older guys, we pick up their slack, it's just what you do coming up. You do it without being asked too, do it because it's right. But at the same time a young buck leaves the "tail ends" to let the older guys contribute. My point in this paragraph is that I've got too many been there done that shirts and I'm now in the place of the older guys I used to help. I'm only near 48 but the miles not been so kind.
Now, fellow down the way building a small pole structure garage. He mentioned needing extra hands but until he asks, won't know if he needs me working for him. And yes, him being about my age, he needs to directly ask me. I need to hear him ask, not just "well, I might could use a few extra hands". Small one off job, I'm sure he'd pay fair "under the table" for a little "contracting". It would at least be that much, maybe good word for something else or put onto something else. But again, kind of depends on him saying something. I don't want to go imposing myself into his job. That's just not done nor is "begging" for work., though around here there's places seem to think you ought to beg. I don't bother. If you need help, you pay a wage get workers. You don't tell workers to pay you for a trial week of working for them. Bullshit!
So, meantime I'm trying to write at pro level. Might seem I'm failing at that too. *chuckles* I may well be. Not sure. All I know is I'll keep fighting, pushing forward. Not much else there for me and I've grown use to thin odds, not that I gamble much.
My apologies this went afar of subject/topic. Not asking pity because I don't pity myself. I keep going, that's just what I do. Even at half my best I'm still ahead of about 80% of folks. The point though is I'm realizing I'm down to half speed even on better days. That's life, will be what it'll be. I'll grab it by the horns and bring it down or leap on over it. Again, apologies it got off topic.