Hey Raymo. You mentioned some things that make sense on a number of different levels and you gave me some perspective that is really encouraging. I think about the things you mentioned like motivation and will power and I can relate those terms to several interesting things I have accomplished in my life. My parents came over from Russia before I was born and my father brought me up on wrestling. In his day he was an Olympic alternate for the Russian freestyle team. He taught me wrestling inside and out at a very young age and, determined to make him proud, I did every single thing I could to be the best wrestler I could be, even though I had school and a social life to compete with wrestling time wise. I won my state championship in Greco Roman by the time I was 17.
Wrestling earned me a scholarship to a Division 1 school and paid for my education, which I would not have been able to afford without a scholarship. I remember him being so hard on me when I was younger. One time he was furious because I won a match, but I did not stick to my technique to win because my opponent wasn't very good. It was hard to find good guys in the Heavyweight division. He explained to me that simply overpowering my opponent wasn't going to be enough when it came to higher caliber wrestlers and he was right. Every day after that I always attempted to execute with the best technique I could regardless of who I was matched up with in the matches or tournaments.
My whole point is that if I think of myself as a person of limited talent in building than you are right in the sense that it will be a self fulfilling prophecy. I have to believe I am capable of being better, put myself outside of my comfort zone like you said, and have the will power to make the time I do have to build count. If I can manage to do that, than I will continue to get better just as I did in wrestling. You know you were kind to even read my post and take the time out to give me the lesson, so to speak, that I needed to hear. When a person of your ability, who commands my admiration for your discipline and ability, takes the time to even acknowledge that I have a skill set, it's a tremendous thing in terms of encouragement. Thanks for the perspective and thank you to referring to standardized limitations to help me understand your message. I appreciate you.