Sorry, I never saw your post. The psychologist is the one who recommended family counseling. We are going to try a few things to try and better our situation.
While i'm in this thread...We went there on Friday and it was hell. All 3 of us felt like complete shit after we left that place. You could tell this lady just felt so sorry for us because we didn't live up to her standards. Fuck that rich snobby bitch, We're not going back.
I support a family of 4 on an income of $45,000 a year. I cannot afford to give someone $80 an hour to make us feel that way. It was going to be tough financially but I THOUGHT it would be worth it.
on another note, i was notified today that somebody spent $1750 on my credit card. Just when you think life can't get worse.
So in the last two months i've,
-had my debit card stolen ($850 - caused me to pay rent late)
-credit card stolen ($1750)
-been scammed out of $1500 trying to get my family into a better house
-made to feel like dirt from a trained professional, then handed her a check
-had to sign a new lease in a place i don't want to live
-dealt with cops & detectives
-patched up a hole in the drywall of my house (from kids)
-fixing various other things around the house
-all while dealing with a kid that makes you miserable every day.
My brain is so scrambled, i'm sure there's other things i'm forgetting. I never thought my life would be this difficult.
Bro!!
One fucking day at a time,I know it’s stressful, and I know it can be really hard, but focus on the positives bro, focus on that side, fuck everything else, as long as your healthy and able to do shit, be thankful bro...
Put that kid in his place bro, don’t let him bully you or your wife bro, DONT! Tell your wife to help you , both of you should be in the same boat, or else that boat will sink, I’m not trying to be therapist bro, but I know how it feels bro, I’m in the same boat right now and my wife is sailing with me....
you can do this bro!! God bless!
I ️ BAM