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SirKadly

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Started watching Blakes7.
Holy crap, seriously? Where'd you find it? Gotta be what, 30 years or more since that was on? Was never satisfied with how it ended either. Hmmm, off in search of Blake's 7.
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Debadoo

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I found the coolest thing ever. Something (can't remember now) reminded me of Herb Alpert, so I googled him (he's still alive, and 81 years old now!), and found some of his old albums on YouTube. I'm listening to Whipped Cream & Other Delights right now. I loved that album growing up. My mom had a crush on him (and Tom Jones, but didn't they all?) and had several albums. I can still smell that old stereo console and the stack of albums in there...
oh kewl! I never did like Tom Jones, he was just too sleazy. I liked some of his songs, but didn't like him

Yea, thank you Deb. I hate being a paranoid person.

OMG I spit my water out on that one. hahahaha!!!!
I wish you didn't worry so much about everything. I used to be that way, and life is much better when you learn not to.

Wow, I finally decide to go exploring again, and find us all being badmouthed because we spend all our time huddled on these threads, and we're not "REAL" UV members.
oh well. I posted twice here cuz I had a ? for HIC, and only came back cuz of y'all. But jup, a lotta folks every where are just plain mean spirited. Luckily I've found some great folks who aren't. Love  wub emoti from ECF.gif Which is why I followed y'all here.

but i do keep trying to be the best version of me that I can manage
That's fantastic! If more folks could do that, the world would be a far nicer place

I've been MIA to day helping out a close friend with some serious health problems. She has some serious decisions to make, and I tried to talk it out with her as best I could.
(((((((Eskie)))))) so glad she has you to be a sounding board.

Well... I suppose that's the goal. I'm not sure that I have fully let it go, for either of them, much as I'd like to. At least, now I'm making the effort.
Glad you're making the effort. Forgiveness many times doesn't even involve the other person. It's about you letting go so it doesn't become bitterness inside you that will hinder you. But if it's a poison, toxic person, forgiveness also does NOT mean you need to allow them back in your life to continue abusing you.

Reckin I missed everyone. I posted, then fell asleep on the couch :facepalm:
 

AndriaD

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oh well. I posted twice here cuz I had a ? for HIC, and only came back cuz of y'all. But jup, a lotta folks every where are just plain mean spirited. Luckily I've found some great folks who aren't. View attachment 63109 Which is why I followed y'all here.

If I worried about what some forum idjit thinks about my forum habits, I'd be a really small, bored person. I love hangin with my old ECF buds; if some of them come here with a lot of rage that needs to be vented, that's fine with me, I did the same thing. But most of us that do come here enraged, eventually get over it -- the fact that I post in other parts of the forum in no way lessens my pleasure in being able to talk to my older friends. :hug:


Glad you're making the effort. Forgiveness many times doesn't even involve the other person. It's about you letting go so it doesn't become bitterness inside you that will hinder you. But if it's a poison, toxic person, forgiveness also does NOT mean you need to allow them back in your life to continue abusing you.

That's the really hard thing; they really are moderately poisonous... but they're my only parents, and I'm my mother's only child, so I'm kinda stuck with 'em. And THEY think they were wonderful parents, I was just a "problem child." I guess a person whose head is NOT up her ass looks like a problem to those whose heads are firmly inserted. :facepalm: My husband knows the score, and he's my salvation from their insanity.

Andria
 

LynnNC

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I'm kinda lucky I guess. Once my mom finally accepted that she dropped the ball and apologized, it made forgiving her easier. It was years before I trusted her though but we even got passed that as well. I still miss her a lot and she's been gone 7 years on the 21st of November.
 

Debadoo

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That's the really hard thing; they really are moderately poisonous... but they're my only parents, and I'm my mother's only child, so I'm kinda stuck with 'em.
well you've already been able to set some boundaries, as in getting your hubby to deal with some things and that's good. As you know, we teach people how to treat us by what we allow from them

I still miss her a lot and she's been gone 7 years on the 21st of November.
(((((((Lynn)))))))) rough time coming soon. My dad was the only stability I ever had in my life. Unfortunately he was fixin to be 48 when I was born, and died when I was 25. Will be 28 yrs in March and I still miss him a lot.

Glad you're feelin better. :)
 

LynnNC

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(((((((Lynn)))))))) rough time coming soon. My dad was the only stability I ever had in my life. Unfortunately he was fixin to be 48 when I was born, and died when I was 25. Will be 28 yrs in March and I still miss him a lot.

Glad you're feelin better. :)
I'm used to rough times :) Out of my little family I'm the only 1 left. My dad passed away in Feb 2000, my only brother in May of 2012. I do have a niece(my brother's oldest daughter) left. She's more like the bratty little sister I never had. My mom and dad assumed custody and legally adopted her when she was 2. She called my mom mama just like I did. My dad though was granddaddy to her. Her kids are my niece and nephews.
 

Debadoo

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I'm used to rough times Out of my little family I'm the only 1 left
same here. It was only me and my dad growing up. He didn't have any family around, and didn't let me go see my mom's side of the family much, so we're not close at all and really don't interact. I was only close to my 1/2 brother (mom's son). But he died several years back. I have my son, and I have his dad's family. I always said when we got divorced, I got custody of his sister and her kids :teehee:
 

LynnNC

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I've always been a loner and the black sheep of the family. I'm still a loner but now I'm the only sheep in the family! Lol My niece calls me a heathen because I don't practice the same religion as her or go to church every time the doors are open like she does. After some pretty rough years, we get along very well now. She knows which subjects not to bring up so she doesn't preach to me any more. :)
 

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Wow, I finally decide to go exploring again, and find us all being badmouthed because we spend all our time huddled on these threads, and we're not "REAL" UV members. This place is just as mean as ECF. Uh-oh! I just mentioned ECF again - get the hanging rope! I have better things to do than be insulted. I have little enough time to try to catch up on this thread, much less go out and post a bunch on other threads. I have work to do, I can't sit in front of a computer all day like SOME people apparently can. :( Right now I have to go clean up my tomato mess.
This should be interesting today then ;)

Morning
 

Rixsta

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oh leave em be darlin...........you've had enough drama lately don't go invitin more :)

Im OK Debs and sorry, that is one thing I can't do, it's easy to talk behind someone's back but none of them have the balls to come here and say what's bothering them, so naturally, I'll go to them. Not really drama anyway, just a little chat :)

And to be honest, life is one big drama anyway
 

Debadoo

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Im OK Debs and sorry, that is one thing I can't do, it's easy to talk behind someone's back but none of them have the balls to come here and say what's bothering them, so naturally, I'll go to them. Not really drama anyway, just a little chat

Okie dokie.........just don't let em git yur goat. I totally get the want to.......just don't you to git yur blood pressure up while it doesn't affect them at all. In their mind they'll just go..........see, told ya they're jerks lol I quit lettin what idiots say affect me a long time ago for the most part.
 

Rixsta

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Okie dokie.........just don't let em git yur goat. I totally get the want to.......just don't you to git yur blood pressure up while it doesn't affect them at all. In their mind they'll just go..........see, told ya they're jerks lol I quit lettin what idiots say affect me a long time ago for the most part.

I'm not going to lower myself to their level, I'd just like to know why members can't post where they want, if they want to stay in one thread then that is their choice, why do people feel the need to have to insult someone (or a group) because they are not doing what they think they should be.

I ain't seen no rules to say we have to visit X amount of threads per week lol......your simply dealing with mindless fools here, most of them obviously cowards too.

Personally I don't need to ask many questions about vaping like I used too, pretty much know everything I need to know. Second is I don't have the time, just this one thread alone is hard enough to keep up with and three, what the hell has it got to do with them in the first place, had enough of that BS at the other place, I came here to get away from that.

Can't stand people that run their mouths behind closed doors, if it's bothering them that much, pop in here, say it to us directly, seems real childish to me.

Trouble is with the world today, too many peeps turning a blind eye, as to not want to cause any drama, no wonder there are so many problems.

Lannie probably won't want to go venturing out again, it's been hard enough to make the move here and it's still early days, many are still settling in, why does that warrant insults.... that in itself needs sorting, ain't that what family and friends do, look out for each other.

Nope, this will be sorted today, I'm also 99% sure it won't make a scrap of difference but that's OK, idiots will be idiots, I ain't doing it for them. What is it, pick on the new group :cool:
 

Debadoo

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Can't stand people that run their mouths behind closed doors, if it's bothering them that much, pop in here, say it to us directly, seems real childish to me.
me either, and jup they should.

Trouble is with the world today, too many peeps turning a blind eye, as to not want to cause any drama, no wonder there are so many problems.
Jup you are correct about that. I do stand up for my friends when they are attacked, just don't let idiots get to me nowadays. I just had thought at first, that you were fixin to blow yur top, which would have only upset you more. :)

needs to git rid of the ecf refugee badge, they jus jealous.
Why should we has a badge?
I thought y'all chose those badges somewhere, did they just give em to ya? They didn't give me one and I don't want one. Cuz I'm not anti ECF, only came here cuz you folks.
 

Rixsta

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Hey I've just thought, I have my VU Donator's badge, ain't talking about me :sneaka:

I thought y'all chose those badges somewhere, did they just give em to ya? They didn't give me one and I don't want one. Cuz I'm not anti ECF, only came here cuz you folks.

There is a thread where you can request one, it's just a bit of fun and I like badges :)

No biggy.....

Debs :hug: It's all good x
 

Rixsta

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Jup, no issues. luv ya too much for that. Hope Emily is doing better
Love you too.....issue ain't in this woom sweetie <3

She is better today thanks, one day at a time

I just requested that my ECF Refugee badge be removed.
Just so you can fit in better :p Ya know we're the only ones that love aliens though, badge or no badge, makes no difference to us Crom.
 

The Cromwell

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lmao.......jup! and it aint easy I tell ya! Got the wet and the dry mixed, leg is goin numb. So gotta wait awhile before I whip the egg whites, mix it all together and cook em. Might just cook me a couple and leave the freezer waffles for my son to stand there and cook when he gits outta school.
I hate it when that happens.
Not sure if the pain or the numbness is worse sometimes.
The pain usually wins out though :oops:
 

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