Teresa P
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For what it's worth, this site is just an extension of real people in the real world. It's full of advice, opinions, and yes, some of those could be better phrased or just left unsaid but that isn't how life or real people operate. On occasion, one is better off sorting the chaff from the grain and moving on. Those with experience on a particular subject will offer sound advice but no one can force someone to take heed. Some folks aren't happy till they've stirred discord and that too also happens in real life and should be taken with a grain of salt. Those of us who have learned to do that fare much better here.
VU welcomes those from all walks of life. We have but one goal here and that's to assist others in giving up smoking and staying smoke free for life. You could bump into any one of us on the street because we're real people in the real world. And just like the real world, there will always be times when one isn't exactly thrilled with someone else's attitude. (Trust me, I work with the public daily and it happens often.) Personally, I try my best not to ruffle my own feathers by hanging around for more punishment than I feel I should endure. There are other places to be here, so that's where I hang. Anything else that pops up to irk me, i just shake it off and move on. I've had a pleasant stay here for nearly three years for that reason.
It is what it is, and that's all that it is. Life.
VU welcomes those from all walks of life. We have but one goal here and that's to assist others in giving up smoking and staying smoke free for life. You could bump into any one of us on the street because we're real people in the real world. And just like the real world, there will always be times when one isn't exactly thrilled with someone else's attitude. (Trust me, I work with the public daily and it happens often.) Personally, I try my best not to ruffle my own feathers by hanging around for more punishment than I feel I should endure. There are other places to be here, so that's where I hang. Anything else that pops up to irk me, i just shake it off and move on. I've had a pleasant stay here for nearly three years for that reason.
It is what it is, and that's all that it is. Life.