My feelings on that are: If you are gay, just shut up and be gay. I have yet to see a heterosexual pride day...or parade, or picnic. Same thing is you are black or a jew....just be one. As soon as we declare ourselves "special"...we separate ourselves from the mainstream, and subsequently define ourselves as different...and will be treated as such. It is said that "All men are created equal"....this is not a philosophy that is exclusive to faith or secular belief...it is just SO. I meet a person, and through discourse and time, I determine that this is a pleasant person to be around and exchange ideas. I see this as a person...and no different than myself...not unlike how most children view each other. All things are pleasantly equal, and assuming that in the course of that relationship there is a just and equitable give and take...there is peace. When a person declares that they are gay , or an atheist, or whathaveyou....then it is not uncommon for the other to stop considering them a "person"...but now a "different person". Subsequently the treatment becomes different, and what began as unity, has now ventured into a tribal division. This is the fundamental basis of faith....to judge NOT the person...but the actions of that person. When a man tells me that he is gay....that does not affect me, as those things which define his gayness, are not a factor in our amicable and platonic relationship. What one believes or does, is THEIR matter, and unless it becomes an extrinsic factor in a relationship, it is irrelevant.