It seems like westerners are always in the wrong. If we go to other countries and don't try to blend in with their culture, we're arrogant. If we have any thoughts or expectations of foreigners to try and fit in here, we're arrogant. I'd suggest to pick one. If people think westerners are just inherently arrogant they can find something fat and suck it. Plenty of foreigners come to the states looking for preferential treatment and to accommodate their 'ways' so the ignorance and arrogance goes both ways.
I'm also not one way on it, while I'd certainly appreciate people to respect our ways (within reason) and speak english here in the u.s., I would extend the same respect to other countries. Try and speak their language (or give it a good effort), attempt to respect their customs if it means wearing different clothing, wearing a hat, taking shoes off inside a building etc.
As for pet peeves, simplistic shit that doesn't work right. An extension of the 'you had one job to do and you fucked up' mantra. I expect cutting edge tech to have 'quirks'. What I don't expect is simple things once mastered like batteries to fail spectacularly, basic devices to break in weeks or more recently, for power cords to just up and take a shit.
Sitting on the couch watching some t.v., lights turned down low and I catch a whiff of something fowl. Acrid burning and thought oh shit! I'd just taken a vape so I look at the screen on my mod to see if it looks like it's firing still. Nope. Sniffed the drip tip, wasn't wick burning. Thought oh hell no, my batteries are trying to go ballistic. You'd be surprised how fast I can yank an alien out of a silicone sleeve, flick the cover open and fling the batteries out. Nope, they were nice and cool. WTF. Look down and I see what looks like the cherry of a cigarette glowing by my feet so I stamped the hell out of it, turned on the light and saw it was the power cord to the oil radiator space heater. Yanked the plug outta the wall and doused the burning rug with some water.
Apparently the power cord decided to short and melted through the insulation. It melted a small hole in the bottom of my crocs where I stamped it out, left about a 2" burnt spot with a 1" hole in the rug. This was the warranty exchange I got for the first heater that on 'high' started melting the plug at the outlet a couple winters ago. Fuckin deathtraps. Needless to say that's the last delonghi product I buy. Other brands have similar heaters for $30-50, I've used radiator oil heaters for decades. Spent $100 on this piece of shit and it tried to burn the fucking house down - twice. The concept has been around for what, 50, 60, 70yrs? Leave it to the wonders of the 21st century to fuck it up.
I hear people in general griping when things like science programs have their funding cut, I look around me and think 'seriously?'. When science and engineering actually begin to make progress rather than regressing then we'll see about fattening the pockets of such programs. It's about as ridiculous as fucking up at your job then having the balls to ask the boss for a raise.
Maybe I need a pin with this on it and just wear it like a badge every day. lmao.