xmas eve in uk, my dad was 37 my mum 35 i was 6 brother was 4 sister was 18months, we were in our car it turned midnight, dad said from the top of this hump backed bridge we can see our house you have all been so good we have lots of suprises for you. we topped the hill. the inside of the cat went white, a tractor coming the other way blinded dad, he hit brakes, car skidded in snow and went through the old stone side of the bridge, i awoke from a coma after i had been given the last rights 6 weeks later. my family were buried as i was still in the coma. first words i heard were from a f@@@ing catholic priest saing god needed your family more than you. he was f123ing wrong. i hate religion with a passion. and i never celibrate that bloody hypocritical day...never.
I too have a certain disdain for religion. Got sent to Mennonite Summer Bible camp. They would "kidnap" us kids with parental consent for four days and three nights. We went to some Amish and helped put up barns.
It wasn't that which soured me to the faith. There's a lot more to that. Suffice it to say I'm just a selectively apathetic agnostic now. I've dabbled enough in most major and some lesser known religions to know none really suit me.
Find if we use humanitarian core principles, empathy, compassion, respect, dignity, equanimity, freedom of choice, then there's no real need of religion. Yes, we need to be moral and ethical. Well we don't explicitly need to be. It helps that we agree some stuff is evil, wrong though. Quick example, most of the world over murder is wrong, rape is wrong, harming children is wrong.
That doesn't say killing is necessarily wrong, nor does killing equate to murder, Murder is knowing you have advantage and can be merciful, not kill, yet killing those unable to defend. Killing might be protecting yourself & loved ones from someone intent on doing you harm, or murdering you.
Sorry but not able to see any way to justify rape or harming children. Well, disciplining children but that isn't to be harmful. Yes, a thin line between discipline and abuse.
So yes I agree that religion needs to be held in less esteem than it is. I can respect others believing what they want. Can do that until they start cramming their belief unto me, or using that belief for genocide, ethnic cleansing, murder, massacres and so on. I'm sure you know of evils well enough. Evil can exist in the world without religion, it becomes all the more potent with religion.