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BigNasty

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Just lookin out for you, just out of surgery and all
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I know but I need to walk this stuff out.
Yesterday was recoup move as much as possible. I have a weight restriction.
I also need to prep chicken and brussel sprouts to be able to walk mom through it.
 

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Liz told me to write this to you, in her words:

I've been through two marriages. One was to a Chollo Colorado screw-around who also physically and verbally abused me. My first born, my daughter - who died from cancer in 2014 - was his only contribution to me, in this thing called 'Life,'

My second husband (another guy, who beat me and abused me with words, AND brought in three of his children; then, he and I created my second-born, a son) was like a newer, fancier box of cereal.

Inside of the box, were the same-old corn flakes. After he beat me to within an inch of my life, I took both of my kids to CA, and filed for divorce. He left me in debt, tóok years to get child-support out of him, and I ended up being a single mom.

My advice to you is this: if your husband is a good provider and father; and, he loves you without abuse - count yourself as one of the lucky ones.

If not - then, throw away the box of cereal, and find the nearest IHOP. Make sure that the IHOP loves kids, and has a full menu.

From Liz's mouth, to my ears - and typing. LW - for,

LW & Liz:):):):)
Haha!!! Awhhhh thank you @Liz and @loveworks! It was just a disagreement, I'm feeling a little overwhelmed with school and work. He actually treats me very well and it's not too often that we argue. ...yes, I have one divorce under my belt and have kissed some ugly frogs too. I got a good one. Managing being a mom, wife, nurse and student can be a lot sometimes. ..I tend to hold things in then explode so no surprise we argued yesterday. All is well today. Going to study and I work tonight. Thank you guys for being so sweet and supporting

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BigNasty

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OK so made it to the kitchen and back twice. grabbed my booties and hoodie. Shivers royal. Slight fever.
So new game plan for today.
Going to get up about every hour from my chair, going to make a run for a hot drink and one for a cold drink.
Hot drink gets put on and I go back for cold container to get the water.

it is pushing it for me if I am having a fever.
 

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OK so made it to the kitchen and back twice. grabbed my booties and hoodie. Shivers royal. Slight fever.
So new game plan for today.
Going to get up about every hour from my chair, going to make a run for a hot drink and one for a cold drink.
Hot drink gets put on and I go back for cold container to get the water.

it is pushing it for me if I am having a fever.
Dont push yourself to hard man!
Don't wanna pop your glue!

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BigNasty

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Dont push yourself to hard man!
Don't wanna pop your glue!

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I know, this is day two post op. damned near popped it at the hospital. the diaphram one along the ribs twinged and dropped me into tears.

So thinking just the hourly back and forths today since I am home alone. Found a new intercostal stitch or twinge in the arm pit.. HOLY shit that one sucks.
 

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I know, this is day two post op. damned near popped it at the hospital. the diaphram one along the ribs twinged and dropped me into tears.

So thinking just the hourly back and forths today since I am home alone. Found a new intercostal stitch or twinge in the arm pit.. HOLY shit that one sucks.
I'm glad that they got it out of you but i hate that you had to go threw that stuff. But I'm sure you'll be up kicking ass in no time

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I'm glad that they got it out of you but i hate that you had to go threw that stuff. But I'm sure you'll be up kicking ass in no time

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ya the uber stiffness is pissing me off.
I cut back on the oxy today since I do not really hurt I just ache. So just ibuprofren for the fever. I think the low grade aspect of it is what is the true culprit behind the aches.
 

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I tend to hold things in then explode
My twin!! My twin!!
ya the uber stiffness is pissing me off.
I cut back on the oxy today since I do not really hurt I just ache. So just ibuprofren for the fever. I think the low grade aspect of it is what is the true culprit behind the aches.
Go slow, go easy, you could get dizzy and you don't need to pass out when home alone like that. Ask me how I know... Keep a small pillow nearby for your gut, especially anytime you need to cough. Stay hydrated, and yes, you'll have to make extra trips to the potty, but it'll help. Backing off the pain med until you have to have them will really help, too, so that's a good move. Hang tough man. I feel for ya.


Pete's home!!! Pete's home!!!
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BigNasty

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My twin!! My twin!!

Go slow, go easy, you could get dizzy and you don't need to pass out when home alone like that. Ask me how I know... Keep a small pillow nearby for your gut, especially anytime you need to cough. Stay hydrated, and yes, you'll have to make extra trips to the potty, but it'll help. Backing off the pain med until you have to have them will really help, too, so that's a good move. Hang tough man. I feel for ya.


Pete's home!!! Pete's home!!!
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I hit the potty every hour on the hour wither I need to or not. Since I can no longer trust a fart it just is prudent advice.
I found a position in my chair that has a zero pain factor except on my hips since i am sitting cockeyed.
I took the nasty gunked up bandaids off last night in the shower left the steristrips.

Coughing is a NO go, so is blowing my nose, so saline spray helps.
Breathing toy to prevent pnuemonia etc.
 

pete67

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My twin!! My twin!!

Go slow, go easy, you could get dizzy and you don't need to pass out when home alone like that. Ask me how I know... Keep a small pillow nearby for your gut, especially anytime you need to cough. Stay hydrated, and yes, you'll have to make extra trips to the potty, but it'll help. Backing off the pain med until you have to have them will really help, too, so that's a good move. Hang tough man. I feel for ya.


Pete's home!!! Pete's home!!!
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Thank you Huck. I missed being on hear and talking to family:)
In my book each and every one of you are family. My God bless each and everyone.
 

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I was told to press a pillow into my stomach if I needed to cough when I had my surgery. It really did work, but if they said not to... I'm not a Dr, I just pretend to know more than they do :D
When my pops had 3 was bipass the heart hospital in Indy (DAMN good hospital) gave him a red "heart" pillow to craddle when he had to cough to keep from ripping his staples out. But that was ~2001 also

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BigNasty

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I was told to press a pillow into my stomach if I needed to cough when I had my surgery. It really did work, but if they said not to... I'm not a Dr, I just pretend to know more than they do :D
Nah just hurts that damned bad.
Got a pillow atm.
I kind of miss farting without worry of poop. One of my favorite pass times denied me.
 

SirVtHondaGuy08

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Nah just hurts that damned bad.
Got a pillow atm.
I kind of miss farting without worry of poop. One of my favorite pass times denied me.
Dude live on the wild side, if it happens it happens. Like kids say these days "YOLO".

Lol but in all seriousness I'm praying you have a healthy and speedy recovery.

You Only Live Once.


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Nah just hurts that damned bad.
Got a pillow atm.
I kind of miss farting without worry of poop. One of my favorite pass times denied me.
That will get better in time. You'll figure out what you can, and can't tolerate. Even an order of how to eat certain foods. I know it sounds gross and all, but it's just part of it. Things that used to affect me, don't anymore. Eating bread first helped me a lot, too.
 

BigNasty

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That will get better in time. You'll figure out what you can, and can't tolerate. Even an order of how to eat certain foods. I know it sounds gross and all, but it's just part of it. Things that used to affect me, don't anymore. Eating bread first helped me a lot, too.
Oh I did have a turkey sammich and jello at the hospital.
The sammich was kick ass and the jello was bliss. The pepermint tea was prolly the best cheap as shit tea I have ever had.
 
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