Well, chili-cheese fries doesn't sound too bad; it seems that most people have this idea that anything that tastes good, MUST be bad for you, and that's just not true. For instance -- bacon
: pork has little or no cholesterol, so unless someone can't handle ANY fat in their diet, or ANY salt in their diet, bacon really isn't bad for you.
At the grocery, instead of buying regular ol iodized salt... buy Morton's "Lite Salt" -- it's 50% lower in sodium than regular salt, because it's 50% potassium chloride; my husband's BP was so extreme that I started buying that many years ago for him, but to fix my ankle edema problem, I started using it too. It tastes just the same as regular salt. As for the apnea... can't say I blame him about not wanting to wear a mask; I can't even handle wearing one of those eye-masks that are supposed to be good for insomniacs to use; it just bothers me too much, so I can't relax. The oxygen-deprivation of apnea might not be any worse than the oxygen-deprivation of smoking cigarettes -- and we all did that for how long? At least it doesn't also provide carbon monoxide and thousands of other toxins, as cigarettes do!
If you're concerned about his cholesterol, avoid fast-food burgers -- they use the lowest, fattiest grade of beef available. In fact, try to stay away from any beef, if at all possible, except the very leanest steaks, or the 93% lean ground beef. And keep a tight handle on how many eggs he eats -- egg whites are ok, they're mostly solid protein... but egg yolks have TONS of cholesterol. But if his blood-work lipids are ok, there's probably not a lot to worry about -- it's mainly a genetic thing, with cholesterol -- my husband did have EXTREME hypertension, but his cholesterol is always fantastic. I eat hardly any cholesterol at all, by avoiding eggs and beef, and my BP is usually quite low... but I'm very prone to having a high reading on my LDL (the bad cholesterol) -- it seems to run in my family. Fortunately, I'm not overweight, don't have hypertension nor diabetes, so my doc just says "eat some cheerios and oatmeal, that'll fix it" -- no meds required. So make sure you give him plenty of oats to eat; the soluble fiber in oats does for the blood vessels what insoluble fiber does for the colon.
Andria