Y'all know wot?
Two days into not fighting myself, and it feels great! How I wish I had been told, taught this a lot sooner in life. It has really put everything into perspective for me. Able to now tell people, "sorry, I'm doing other stuff", or "nope, taking a breather." The world doesn't end when Atlas lets down his shoulders.
Thought I would be spending the weekend helping wife get us moved. She informed me, we can only get the key/s on the 4th or after, though. We might still do some packing up, and preparing this weekend. Usually she'll wait until last minute, and then be methodical (read extremely slow) in getting us ready, packed up.
Such methodology often causes me stress. Not sure if it will now, seem fairly used to her ways of doing. May have to read about a WV lady beating her husband to death, however. "He wouldn't quit chuckling at me."
I know the first time you decide to go in the Kitchen and make a Cup of Tea or Coffee with No Dumbass to deal with any longer you will feel like.................... Life Is Good~!
Congratulations on the move up~!