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SirKadly

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chopdoc said:
Marry them, when hell freezes over. Yet that problem is taken care of for now. Yesterday she was digging thru some paper work that she had no business digging thru and found the certificate for the plane I bought back in 2009. Come apart doesn't describe it :D But this has been coming for a while and I am kinda glad it is finally here. Things didn't feel right living at her place, she had an attitude about her ever since she talked me into us staying there like she was in charge now and I was at her mercy.
So now I don't have a choice, I gotta rebuild my place but the bright side is it is my place and I wont be at any ones mercy. She is about to have a rude awakening also. Ever since the flood she been harping that I haven't been taking care of her. That it is my place to take care of her and I haven't been doing it. Come Monday her truck comes off my insurance policy, her bike comes off that policy, her cell comes off my account, she will have to start paying her own credit card bills, sat tv bills, electric bills, as well as the weekly cost of having your own place. Groceries and household supplies are not free. On average I believe she just saved me around $700 a month :)
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You just saved a bunch of money and you didn't even have to switch to Geico? And think of the stress savings...
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Hank F. Spankman said:
The 22 is pretty fucking good doc. Well worth it
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does it really offer any amazing enhancement over the vape on the 24? i have heard it has somewhat better flavor because of smaller form factor, but i guess it is a question of degree and preference - since I diy, flavor profiles on my juice are pretty 'big' anyway, and - for me - the larger juice well on the 24 is a big plus - really dig the Mason Advocate also
 
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doc_iguana said:
does it really offer any amazing enhancement over the vape on the 24? i have heard it has somewhat better flavor because of smaller form factor, but i guess it is a question of degree and preference - since I diy, flavor profiles on my juice are pretty 'big' anyway, and - for me - the larger juice well on the 24 is a big plus - really dig the Mason Advocate also
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doc_iguana said:
does it really offer any amazing enhancement over the vape on the 24? i have heard it has somewhat better flavor because of smaller form factor, but i guess it is a question of degree and preference - since I diy, flavor profiles on my juice are pretty 'big' anyway, and - for me - the larger juice well on the 24 is a big plus - really dig the Mason Advocate also
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I'd really like to get a Prophet RDA.
 
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chopdoc said:
Marry them, when hell freezes over. Yet that problem is taken care of for now. Yesterday she was digging thru some paper work that she had no business digging thru and found the certificate for the plane I bought back in 2009. Come apart doesn't describe it :D But this has been coming for a while and I am kinda glad it is finally here. Things didn't feel right living at her place, she had an attitude about her ever since she talked me into us staying there like she was in charge now and I was at her mercy.
So now I don't have a choice, I gotta rebuild my place but the bright side is it is my place and I wont be at any ones mercy. She is about to have a rude awakening also. Ever since the flood she been harping that I haven't been taking care of her. That it is my place to take care of her and I haven't been doing it. Come Monday her truck comes off my insurance policy, her bike comes off that policy, her cell comes off my account, she will have to start paying her own credit card bills, sat tv bills, electric bills, as well as the weekly cost of having your own place. Groceries and household supplies are not free. On average I believe she just saved me around $700 a month :)
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Can't blame ya a bit. If people go nosing into things that aren't their beeswax, they just might discover things that put that proboscis out of joint. And if you haven't ever been married in the first place, and now are ex's, I fail to see how you can possibly be responsible for her upkeep.

My mate and I have been MARRIED, more or less happily, for 29 yrs now... and I don't go into his wallet or desk without his EXPRESS permission... for one simple reason: I'd hate it if he started pawing thru MY shit. Not because I have anything to hide, but because I know how everything is supposed to be "organized" (which is, not at all! :giggle:), and because of the principle of the thing. It's just simple respect for the other person.

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chopdoc said:
Marry them, when hell freezes over. Yet that problem is taken care of for now. Yesterday she was digging thru some paper work that she had no business digging thru and found the certificate for the plane I bought back in 2009. Come apart doesn't describe it :D But this has been coming for a while and I am kinda glad it is finally here. Things didn't feel right living at her place, she had an attitude about her ever since she talked me into us staying there like she was in charge now and I was at her mercy.
So now I don't have a choice, I gotta rebuild my place but the bright side is it is my place and I wont be at any ones mercy. She is about to have a rude awakening also. Ever since the flood she been harping that I haven't been taking care of her. That it is my place to take care of her and I haven't been doing it. Come Monday her truck comes off my insurance policy, her bike comes off that policy, her cell comes off my account, she will have to start paying her own credit card bills, sat tv bills, electric bills, as well as the weekly cost of having your own place. Groceries and household supplies are not free. On average I believe she just saved me around $700 a month :)
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Wow. That's just wrong! Sorry it didn't work out for you Choppy.
 
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AndriaD said:
Can't blame ya a bit. If people go nosing into things that aren't their beeswax, they just might discover things that put that proboscis out of joint. And if you haven't ever been married in the first place, and now are ex's, I fail to see how you can possibly be responsible for her upkeep.

My mate and I have been MARRIED, more or less happily, for 29 yrs now... and I don't go into his wallet or desk without his EXPRESS permission... for one simple reason: I'd hate it if he started pawing thru MY shit. Not because I have anything to hide, but because I know how everything is supposed to be "organized" (which is, not at all! :giggle), and because of the principle of the thing. It's just simple respect for the other person.

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Yea, sounds like she doesn't respect him and has an attitude on top of it all.
 
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Atchafalaya said:
Yea, sounds like she doesn't respect him and has an attitude on top of it all.
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I went thru crap like this with my first husband, when I was in my 20s -- if you want a real relationship that will last, you don't lie, you don't hide things, and you don't go digging into the other person's belongings. It's just respect, and without it, a relationship will not last. Nobody wants to be leg-shackled to someone who doesn't respect them.

Hell, I never even went digging thru my SON'S things when he was a kid and a teenager... which is maybe why he always showed us respect: he learned it from how we treated HIM.

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AndriaD said:
I went thru crap like this with my first husband, when I was in my 20s -- if you want a real relationship that will last, you don't lie, you don't hide things, and you don't go digging into the other person's belongings. It's just respect, and without it, a relationship will not last. Nobody wants to be leg-shackled to someone who doesn't respect them.

Hell, I never even went digging thru my SON'S things when he was a kid and a teenager... which is maybe why he always showed us respect: he learned it from how we treated HIM.

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I completely agree. I never went through my son's things either. I did however "accidentally" find things while cleaning, but I didn't call him out and embarrass him. I've never gone through anyone's phone, wallet, purse, ANYTHING! What business is it of mine? Dang. That just sucks all the way.
@chopdoc , know this, you have been through sooooooooo much crap and it's going to get better!!!
 
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AndriaD said:
Can't blame ya a bit. If people go nosing into things that aren't their beeswax, they just might discover things that put that proboscis out of joint. And if you haven't ever been married in the first place, and now are ex's, I fail to see how you can possibly be responsible for her upkeep.

My mate and I have been MARRIED, more or less happily, for 29 yrs now... and I don't go into his wallet or desk without his EXPRESS permission... for one simple reason: I'd hate it if he started pawing thru MY shit. Not because I have anything to hide, but because I know how everything is supposed to be "organized" (which is, not at all! :giggle:), and because of the principle of the thing. It's just simple respect for the other person.

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With you, Andria! Some people maintain that openness and honesty are the king pins of a good marriage. I think that privacy and respect for individuality are up there too. I have never looked at my wife's emails, phone messages, I have never been in her purse or wallet without her request. When she is having a phone conversation and I know who it is, I ask her to say hi for me then find somewhere else to be. She does the same for me. It comes down to always showing trust and respect. I think next to love, those are the two most important factors.
 
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AndriaD said:
I went thru crap like this with my first husband, when I was in my 20s -- if you want a real relationship that will last, you don't lie, you don't hide things, and you don't go digging into the other person's belongings. It's just respect, and without it, a relationship will not last. Nobody wants to be leg-shackled to someone who doesn't respect them.

Hell, I never even went digging thru my SON'S things when he was a kid and a teenager... which is maybe why he always showed us respect: he learned it from how we treated HIM.

Andria
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My oldest daughter drips with integrity and honesty. The younger, not so much. She was a serial fibber as a child, and we always warned her that it wsa going to cost her dearly when she got older if she didn't quit. It took a LOT of "not trusting her" before she realized what a burden being "sketchy" was.
She has largely straightened out from that, but she got busted the other day.

Fresh drivers license, we let her take the Volt into town to be with friends. Promised she wasn't going anywhere else. My oldest son (33) came over a little later that day. He wanted to do something we don't mention here, and was worried about the lil one showing up. I have the onstar app on my phone, and one feature is you can pinpoint where your car is at any time. They wanted me to check it, and I refused. So my son used my phone, only to find the car was at a shopping center 20 miles away from where she SAID she was going.

When she got home, her brother nonchalantly asked about her trip. She was downtown. "anywhere else?" and she replied in the negative. I was really disappointed in her. Not a crime to go to a shopping center, but the truth thing, and I really didn't want to BE in this position in the first place. SO disappointed. We let her have her charade awhile. The Mrs. broke it to her later that evening. Needless to say, she will be allowed to use the car again, but with the caveat that we WILL be checking up on her whereabouts.
 
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Oh, good morning and GFY. I had a ROUGH night. A drink or two too many, amongst other sins. I FEEL great, but I couldn't help notice I didn't wake until after NOON? Thank goodness it is a RAINY day, or I would be mourning the morning.
 
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Moueix said:
My oldest daughter drips with integrity and honesty. The younger, not so much. She was a serial fibber as a child, and we always warned her that it wsa going to cost her dearly when she got older if she didn't quit. It took a LOT of "not trusting her" before she realized what a burden being "sketchy" was.
She has largely straightened out from that, but she got busted the other day.

Fresh drivers license, we let her take the Volt into town to be with friends. Promised she wasn't going anywhere else. My oldest son (33) came over a little later that day. He wanted to do something we don't mention here, and was worried about the lil one showing up. I have the onstar app on my phone, and one feature is you can pinpoint where your car is at any time. They wanted me to check it, and I refused. So my son used my phone, only to find the car was at a shopping center 20 miles away from where she SAID she was going.

When she got home, her brother nonchalantly asked about her trip. She was downtown. "anywhere else?" and she replied in the negative. I was really disappointed in her. Not a crime to go to a shopping center, but the truth thing, and I really didn't want to BE in this position in the first place. SO disappointed. We let her have her charade awhile. The Mrs. broke it to her later that evening. Needless to say, she will be allowed to use the car again, but with the caveat that we WILL be checking up on her whereabouts.
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GM Moo.
Dang, that sucks. I caught my son in a few "fibs" when he was young but he's honest now. I had some friends over and we were watching OLD VHS movies. I pulled one out and put it on, and lo and behold, it was right smack dab in the middle of a porn scene! Yep, really embarrassing. My son, had evidently recorded over the movie. So, I called him on the phone and told him what happened. I asked him: Man, that was a shocker! Do you have any idea who recorded that? Well, he answered truthfully. And we both had a big laugh after.
 
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Atchafalaya said:
I've been gathering all my vape gear together and had actually forgotten just how much stuff I ordered. I even forgot I actually have 4 coolfires!!!!! :bunny:
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You do? But I only ever saw you use the Vamos. And I still need to teach you how to use the CF4. Which version are the other ones? Are they the old tube style ones?
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Atchafalaya said:
GM Moo.
Dang, that sucks. I caught my son in a few "fibs" when he was young but he's honest now. I had some friends over and we were watching OLD VHS movies. I pulled one out and put it on, and lo and behold, it was right smack dab in the middle of a porn scene! Yep, really embarrassing. My son, had evidently recorded over the movie. So, I called him on the phone and told him what happened. I asked him: Man, that was a shocker! Do you have any idea who recorded that? Well, he answered truthfully. And we both had a big laugh after.
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LOL! That coulda been really embarrassing, depending on the friends.
 
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You do? But I only ever saw you use the Vamos. And I still need to teach you how to use the CF4. Which version are the other ones? Are they the old tube style ones?
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I have 2 of the new types -- that I don't understand all that well. And, I have 2 of the older models. One is GREEN!!! :bliss: It's so pretty! A while back, I just started stocking up and ordering all sorts of stuff and now that I've decided to take inventory, I'm shocked at how much I have. Nicely shocked though. I do want to order more PM with WTA juice though. I need to nic up Darth Lannie Mixtress's juice I just got. I can't wait to taste it!!!!
You're right though, I do love my vamo's. Just so easy to use. Only bad thing is they fall over so easily. :wait:
 
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Atchafalaya said:
GM Moo.
Dang, that sucks. I caught my son in a few "fibs" when he was young but he's honest now. I had some friends over and we were watching OLD VHS movies. I pulled one out and put it on, and lo and behold, it was right smack dab in the middle of a porn scene! Yep, really embarrassing. My son, had evidently recorded over the movie. So, I called him on the phone and told him what happened. I asked him: Man, that was a shocker! Do you have any idea who recorded that? Well, he answered truthfully. And we both had a big laugh after.
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I had Debbie Does Dallas (I think that was it??) in my VCR, got caught all the time.. lol

No Shame!! Respect!! :D
 
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Well, I've got to get busy again. Rain rain and more rain. Central Texas doesn't know what's going on. Found a snake hiding under some insulation I pulled out. Don't know who was more frightened. Well, ok................it was me. :oops:
 
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