I have thought about it but he won't go! I have honestly given it everything I have and I have changed and he hasn't but as the years have passed away I have been trying to let him know that we needed more to our relationship or it wasn't going to last! We are not even friends if I am being honest and he doesn't know how to communicate with me and I have tried to explain to him how important it is in a relationship to be able to communicate with each other but he just doesn't seem to get it or doesn't want to! I will be alright either way but it would be great if he would try to put in half of the effort I have for years!?! I have other plans for my future other than being in an unhappy marriage and I don't want to get old and wake up bitter and lonely and not know how it got to be that way! I love the idea of learning to dance together or something else that we would both enjoy and have even suggested some things but it doesn't work so it is what it is but thanks for the suggestion and trying to help!!!Ever try counseling. I don't wanna be overstepping at all, but my brother and his wife a few years ago are where you sound to be, and they both agreed they were gonna give it one last shot at 100 percent, and did counseling, and started to do learn new things together. I think they did a cooking class, and dance lessons, and damn if they don't seem like newlyweds these days.
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