So, this wanker on /r/sex asked if he should tell his significant other that he went out and paid for sex. Most of the commends say NO.
Here is MY response:
"Tell the truth...demonstrate your trust and humility....then accept the consequences. Good chance that you will lose your partner since you just slept not only with a hooker, but everyone SHE has slept with. Pretty certain your partner does not want that kind of risk to her own health. In the end, you will at the very least have the knowledge that you are an honest person. Lying by omission is sneaky and deceptive, and just as bad, if not WORSE than lying outright. Reading the comments below, it seems like lying to the one you love is pretty popular. Am I being judgemental? Damn fucking right I am! Most seem to not want you to make yourself a victim, when you've already made a person who trusts in you....a victim." WHERE HAS HONOUR GONE???